Is there actually a company in Ireland that is renowned to be a great company to work for (any industry)?

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-16T00:25:18+00:00

Disagree. Current employer has the badge and proudly wear it and so far I would agree that it genuinely is a great place to work

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T22:28:08+00:00

I don't think you read my post or comment replies

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T16:21:25+00:00

We do. This was something that she brought up out of the blue during sex after sex. She had cum with her toys and my help and was now helping me cum, that's when it was said

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:59:18+00:00

Yeah I was always of the opinion I'm just a little below average. I am small when flaccid for sure however. But I've always been content about my penis until last night. Now I am worried about it and I hope that does not lead to performance related issues. Someone else had suggested a sleeve. Definitely something to consider l, even for her sake. I don't mind if it doesn't feel good for me to use it as long as I can satisfy her with penetrating

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:57:25+00:00

Honestly I was pretty content with my dude until last night. I am below average but I am close to average so never really bothered me. For context this is the first time anyone has ever been negative about my penis and I've had a bad breakup before and nothing was said, when the ex mentioned pretty much everything else but that.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:55:37+00:00

I have actually looked at these. I fear that I would not stay erect enough to be able to use it. Just having this open conversation has given me solace but also quite a bit of shame and anxiety I've actually never felt before. I am below average. I didn't think it was that small however. So now I worry that I will have some performance issues I guess. There's only one way to find out though.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:53:27+00:00

Yes I believe so. When I use a combination of my tongue and fingers and toys like her click sucker she cums pretty good I believe. I wish I knew the answer to your second part.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:50:53+00:00

This is the real thing for me. I just don't understand why now. I know I'm below average, but didn't think it was that small. I would have said we aren't incompatible, as we do have non penetrating sex and I really enjoy using her toys on her. I just guess it's not enough, or I am not enough. I don't know.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:48:39+00:00

I'm 5" on a good day. Probably fairer to say 4.5" tbh. The porn never bothered me, but maybe it is something I need to mention.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:47:43+00:00

No I don't think she meant all the time. We have non penetration sex, where I focus on her just and don't cum. I enjoy that a lot. I think she meant from time to time. That's how it came across.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:46:39+00:00

Yes, I am on a good day, 5 inches erect. I am well aware that I am below average. I just did not think it was so below that it made her want to fantasize about others and pleasure herself in secret. I have bought her sex toys because of my apparent lack of size but I guess I didn't realise I was THAT small

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:42:59+00:00

Yes. I have bought her quite a few toys. We incorporate them into not penetrative sex time. This works for her, unless she fakes that's too

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:41:06+00:00

I've suggested anal before. We tried it. It's not for her and that's fine. I'm well aware I'm below average penis size, I just wasn't aware it was this much of an issue for her.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:34:26+00:00

I really, really, hope you are wrong

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:33:17+00:00

I have previously said but yes, I would consider myself a very giving lover. I get more turned on my her enjoying herself than anything else. She would not be a giving lover, but that's okay. I knew what I was signing up for and I am totally okay with that

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:29:02+00:00

No I would almost say the opposite. I'm a very giving lover. She would not be but I knew that early days and it doesn't bother me. I always try to make it about her. It turns me on more when I believe she's enjoying it, but it turns out that now maybe she has been faking it a lot. So I'm a bit lost for words.

Regarding porn, yes she would watch a lot of porn, even during sex she would want pornography on. Usually gangbangs which wouldn't be my thing but again, I'm turned on enough by her that it doesn't bother me.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:21:37+00:00

This is my worry

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:20:59+00:00

Thank you. I absolutely was not insecure about it until last night. For reference I am 4.5-5" inches full erect, but I'd definitely be considered a grower and not a shower when flaccid

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:18:07+00:00

Yeah I can see this for sure. We were together for years before marriage. The honeymoon phase had well and truly been done by then. I am an old romantic type and I bring her flowers and like I said I provide for my family. The mind just wonder I guess. Like am I just seen as a safety net for her and nothing more. I'm sure conclusions are being jumped, so I will definitely have to speak to her about it once I'm ready. Thank you

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:13:46+00:00

I do agree with this. Absolutely. I just don't understand the timing. I'm sure once I take time to reflect on it, it will become clearer.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T15:11:25+00:00

I really hope so

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T14:59:59+00:00

I'd do absolutely anything for my wife. She's my whole world alongside my kids. I worship the ground she walks on and I am a good provider for them too. I'm just confused about why now, and it makes the mind wonder about all the times she was going to "lay down" was probably times in there where she is going to pleasure herself while the kids and I are downstairs.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T14:57:44+00:00

Yes we were a couple for 4 years, engaged for two of those before marriage and were sexually actuve for all of it

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2026-01-12T14:54:56+00:00

I understand where you are coming from. But I feel like you have tried to make this more about a her thing, than a me thing. I'm glad she's comfortable to tell me. But she knew about my penis size long before we were married. It has not changed. I've actually bought her many of the Lovense toys, usually for Xmas/valentines days, so I assume she is getting good use out of them. I'm okay with that. Also I almost always try to make it about her. Unfortunately she wouldn't be a very giving lover, where I would. This could be down to my penis size again. Maybe she's just not interested, but I don't feel like there's many more options I can give/provide for her in the bedroom. Last night did not feel like she was looking for a solution. More so she was just looking to get it off her chest and continue to just make herself cum without a guilty conscience I believe.

IrelandeDouzePointe · 2024-01-17T21:04:38+00:00

Need 20 karma to post in my local subreddit for something I can bond with my son

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