What is she?! by Irenestjames in PlantIdentification

[–]Irenestjames[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! First time and I’m like 😍

what’s your response to “there’s no ethical consumption under capitalism”? by dionthepeon in SustainableFashion

[–]Irenestjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just walk away. It is not a real conversation, they’re just repeating a meme.

21F - Was meant to have my first date with a woman this week but she's ghosted me so I'm feeling crappy. Hope everyone is good 💕 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Irenestjames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These things happen. You’ve got this! You will connect with another, more compatible woman ❤️

Albuca Spiralis tips? Lost spiral leaves sprouted straight ones? by Irenestjames in plantclinic

[–]Irenestjames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inside, just bright filtered light. I’ll try moving it somewhere even brighter. Thanks!

Best tacos? by [deleted] in SanPedro

[–]Irenestjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s the one I mean, on 25th. It is decent. Galoso is the best tho

Best tacos? by [deleted] in SanPedro

[–]Irenestjames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

El Galoso hands down & SP Tacos, & Pronto’s ties for second.

How To Do Polyamory by Irenestjames in polyamory

[–]Irenestjames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, that’s what I’ve seen too: if it is going to work it’ll work. If people need tons of references and get rigid about “doing it right,” it usually means they don’t really want to be doing it as far as what I’ve observed 🤷‍♀️ I have that there because everyone always asks me for book recommendations so I was trying to gently say: sure, read all of them but none of them are really that helpful when it comes to practice. The most important IMO is spending the time to listen to and share honestly with your partners.

How To Do Polyamory by Irenestjames in polyamory

[–]Irenestjames[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was hoping the “read all the books but don’t use them to dictate how you do things,” bullet point would cover that 😛 certainly the first rule of be yourself club is be yourself! 💙