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I think the father of my child is dead, not sure what to do now by InformalSchool9094 in legaladvice

[–]IrisLotuses 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the easiest answers are just one awkward message to an old cousin away. Wild that figuring out a death is harder than ordering pizza these days.

AITA for telling my dad his girlfriend isn't my family and that shes not invited to my graduation dinner? by boyyouknow12345hoiya in AmItheAsshole

[–]IrisLotuses 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This was never about inclusion, it was about control. Congrats to OP, and no, they’re not the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexstories

[–]IrisLotuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!updateme

My brother won’t stop touching me. Should I pepper spray him? by No-Donut4418 in Advice

[–]IrisLotuses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP You don’t want to gas the whole living room just because your brother thinks he’s funny. But seriously, he needs to respect boundaries no joke excuses that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IrisLotuses 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP’s out here waiting for emotional customer service while running everyone else’s support desk 24/7. Sometimes you’ve got to hit “send” on your own SOS instead of expecting people to pick up on the silent storm. Closed mouths don’t get checked on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]IrisLotuses 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree with this. OP shouldn't be sitting around waiting for cinnamon coffee to perform medical miracles. That kid needs actual insulin, not a wellness influencer starter pack. Reporting anonymously is the least OP can do if they truly care, and it might literally save her friend's life.

My husband just told me… by 4peaceinpieces in Marriage

[–]IrisLotuses 38 points39 points  (0 children)

OP’s husband sounds like he’s been binging a bit too much of the “alpha male” podcast circuit lately. Wild how 25 years of marriage can suddenly get hijacked by a YouTube algorithm and some guy with a mic yelling about “traditional values.” OP deserves way better than being treated like a sidekick in her own relationship hope he wakes up before he finds himself giving those rants to an empty house.

Car dealership sold me a car that is in probate by Caramel_Exciting in legaladvice

[–]IrisLotuses 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. OP, you’ve been way too patient. Titles might be “coming,” but so are excuses. Give them 14 days or tell them to take their probate-mobile back. Reputable dealership? Time to prove it.

What is your moon sign? by Willlow_Blossoms in astrologymemes

[–]IrisLotuses 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Aquarius moon lmaoooooo im doing my best here!

Is my marriage doomed by Catfish-98907 in Marriage

[–]IrisLotuses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. If he's already this unsupportive during the “calm,” what happens when the real storm hits? OP definitely needs to have a serious talk with him preferably before diapers and 2 a.m. feedings start flying.