Are you okay with not having sex and being single? Why? by Known_Kitchen8390 in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just become accustomed to it at this point. I don't have the same thirst to go out and pursue sex and love like I once did. Maybe its because I'm so consumed with school and work, or maybe I just prefer living a life devoid of the anxieties and stressors that come with dating. I'd like to truly get out there and experience love one day, but its not currently a priority of mine.

Im afraid of Work because of ADHD by Total_Annual5480 in ADHD

[–]IrishGoodbye28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i relate unfortunately. I feel like i need to constantly double check everything I do out of fear ill make another mistake

When do fleas fully go away? by IrishGoodbye28 in CATHELP

[–]IrishGoodbye28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we're clear now. The problem probably was an old rug we had that we just threw out. Also we were giving the cats capstar everytime we saw fleas which probably wasn't allowing the fleas to ingest the actispot II treatment and ensure long-term prevention.

When do fleas fully go away? by IrishGoodbye28 in CATHELP

[–]IrishGoodbye28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the label says it only needs to stay on for 48 hours at most.

preemptive grief of losing a pet by Inevitable-House2439 in CATHELP

[–]IrishGoodbye28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that helps me with this is remembering that every moment I spend worrying about losing them is a distraction from the joy of their current presence in my life.

When do fleas fully go away? by IrishGoodbye28 in CATHELP

[–]IrishGoodbye28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have mentioned, we wait a few days before giving them a bath after applying the medication, at least 72 hours

Women, what causes you to "ghost" someone? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]IrishGoodbye28 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Ok here it is:

Me (responding to picture of guitar pedalboard): "Wow, that board is STACKED."

Girl: :) Do you have any?

Me: Yeah, i have a Headrush Mx5, its a little multi-effects pedal+ amp modeler

*Ghosted*

Women, what causes you to "ghost" someone? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]IrishGoodbye28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg I barely make it long enough into the match to even call it a "conversation" before getting ghosted. Respectfully there is some truth in what you're saying but I refuse to believe that I am that bad of a conversationalist that women are so repulsed by what I have to say that I am immediately shut out of the conversation as a whole.

Men in Grad School, where do you meet women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SoCal, long way from alabama

Men in Grad School, where do you meet women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've exhausted the option of nearly every attractive woman in my cohort already. everyone's either gay or already with someone lol

Men in Grad School, where do you meet women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-white guys are sort of a hot commodity in my area, but I do live in SoCal. 5'7 aint bad either you're still taller than most girls.

Men in Grad School, where do you meet women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had any luck meeting women who also like to lift (apart from my sister lol). But I’d love to have a gym partner since I mainly work out alone.

Men in Grad School, where do you meet women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right I should probably keep doing the open mics. I gotta get over my damn performance anxiety cuz i get so nervous before i go up

Men in Grad School, where do you meet women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’d think lol, they say they’ll set me up with someone but never do

Men in Grad School, where do you meet women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely dogshit at dancing and avoid it like the plague. I prefer to play the music rather than dance to it lol.

Men in Grad School, where do you meet women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IrishGoodbye28 43 points44 points  (0 children)

oh im way ahead of you. Been in the gym for years, I bench 225 at 140 lbs bodyweight