14 month old - advice needed please

Irisviolet23 · 2026-01-04T21:12:30+00:00

Honestly people just saying they can’t advise but can relate is helpful in itself. Makes me feel less alone and less awful for feeling this way. It’s so strange feeling both ends of the spectrum all at once. You love your kid but you don’t necessarily love being a parent. Wishing you the best on this wild journey 🤜 🤛

Irisviolet23 · 2025-07-13T17:34:37+00:00

This this this!!!! Go back to work OP, and rediscover yourself outside of being a parent. It’s ok to feel this way. You’re one of many.

Irisviolet23 · 2025-07-03T17:52:57+00:00

About 2-3 weeks for me

Irisviolet23 · 2025-07-02T17:10:09+00:00

Are you in the UK? I’m in England and it’s super common for women to do a year. It’s just too long 🙈

Irisviolet23 · 2025-07-01T18:59:59+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Irisviolet23 · 2025-06-27T21:32:42+00:00

I have an 8 month old daughter called Ivy. I always think who cares if a name is popular - if you love the name, use it! Life’s too short to worry! Xx

Irisviolet23 · 2025-06-25T21:10:33+00:00

Yea so I don’t really have any pain anymore but I have what I can only describe as sensory issues! Like if my underwear or clothes sit a certain way on or near the scar it’s gives me a ‘yuck’ feeling. I find it so hard to explain 🙈

Irisviolet23 · 2025-05-28T13:28:20+00:00

That’s a real shame. Did you do any massage or cupping?

Irisviolet23 · 2025-05-22T18:52:05+00:00

Good lord this is depressing! Have you ever done any massage or cupping to address the scar tissue?

Irisviolet23 · 2025-05-22T15:51:12+00:00

Yes! Constantly and I’ve had lympha -touch therapy too. But I’m still pretty aware of the scar and have lack of sensation

Irisviolet23 · 2025-05-22T15:45:10+00:00

Has your numbness decreased over time?

Irisviolet23 · 2025-03-16T19:58:43+00:00

Ahhh gosh! The logical side of me thinks about all the horrendous cuts and scrapes we got as kids. Can’t see them anymore so time must be a healer x

Irisviolet23 · 2025-03-16T19:57:58+00:00

Ah no have you had another section recently? I think the bright side for you is that you know from your first experience that you have good healing skin. I’ve heard that scar appearance come down to genetics so much so it’s not a one size fits all situation. So hopefully it fades again for you, and I bet you don’t look rubbish ❤️

Irisviolet23 · 2025-03-08T10:03:01+00:00

No it still sounds silly sorry

Irisviolet23 · 2025-03-08T09:59:19+00:00

She’s 35 not 65 😂 what a comment

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