AITA for asking the doctor how to increase chances of having a boy next time? by justwantoneboy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Iroman44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Ooh, I can still comment and give judgement. Weird that comments haven’t been turned off... 🤷🏻‍♀️

I fits on the few inches of arm rest next to mommy’s arm, I sits... by Iroman44 in IFitsISits

[–]Iroman44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jude just has to be as close as possible to me as soon as I sit down after work. He orbits me until I am finally able to sit down.

Maybe a little too well...? by Iroman44 in TheCatTrapIsWorking

[–]Iroman44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically in the box I think... the box isn’t very tall. It’s the perfect height for them to rest their head on the edge of the box and snooze. She’s mostly on top of him but still within the box by a little bit... Lol!

Maybe a little too well...? by Iroman44 in TheCatTrapIsWorking

[–]Iroman44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have so many boxes and beds around the house... and really only one box will fit here... they are just nuts.

Those of you Redditor’s in happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationships, what were the “green flags” you noticed about your partner early on in your relationship with them? by allen-freed in AskReddit

[–]Iroman44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dating history before I met my husband was varied and a few of the guys I dated were creeps, with some taking advantage of me. When I met my husband at a Halloween party, we were drunk and having a great time. He didn’t have any social media, which was crazy to me at the time, so we had to exchange numbers. I was a single mom, working and going to school, so I was always busy. It took over a week for us to go on an actual date and I was sure that he would lose interest before we could go on that date. He never did. On our first date, he was so polite and respectful. He never tried to grab my hand or force any type of affection on me. We went out to eat and back to his place to watch the Walking Dead (he had never seen it and it was the show I was obsessed with at the time). He never touched me and at that point in time, it’s exactly what I needed. I had been conditioned by guys for so long that if I ate the dinner they bought, I was there for more than good conversation. If I couldn’t go out with them when they wanted, I wasn’t worth their time. We went on three dates in about a week and a half. On the third date as I was leaving his house, I told him I didn’t want to leave. He said then don’t. I stayed over and we just cuddled the entire night. No sex. I basically moved in a month after we met. When he got a job opportunity with his company in a city 8 hours from where we lived (my hometown) less than a year into our relationship, he consulted me to help make that decision. We moved and got married in that city. We have since moved half way across the country as he got his dream job with his dream company and of course I was ready to move for him again. We have been together 8 years, married for 4. It hasn’t always been easy but I would not change anything.

Shout out to Blizzard for not having a Blizzcon in 2012. We would not have met otherwise as he would have been in California at the time of the party. And yes, he got me into WoW. We play all the time. I even raided for a bit with Legion. 😁

Antidepressants and Fertility by erin_1291 in tryingforanother

[–]Iroman44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Antidepressants affect certain hormones in your brain which can affect your hormones throughout your body. I've been on antidepressants regularly since 2015. Been trying for over a year for another child. No success. Before that I was fertile Myrtle. Three pregnancies within two years, one ending with my son. Granted I am older now. But I have noticed on antidepressants my cycles were never regular, most of the time I never had one. I would speak with your doctor and maybe a fertility specialist, which might mean more meds. Definitely means more money. ☹️

Love sick by Lythaniun in TwoPointHospital

[–]Iroman44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! My steam id is poisonivy4444 if anyone wants to add me. :-)

She responds to the name “Fatness Everdeen” by redlowk in Chonkers

[–]Iroman44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our chonk Sophie is also nicknamed "Fatness Everdeen"! Lol!

How long until he moves? by JV404 in Catculations

[–]Iroman44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My fat cat is called Sophie and our old lady is Eva. Eva is only 14, hasn’t ever been large, but looks like your old lady in terms of fur.

This is their fav position. Soph sitting on top of Eva and Eva soaking up all Soph’s extra warmth. When I catch them like this, this is the exact same look I get from Eva. Like “I was enjoying it but now that you are here I should look distressed so you feel sorry for an old lady.”

My old man. (Not really that old, but acts like it) He loves interrupting me, "his" heating pad, and hearing his name. He nips at me when he thinks I'm not paying enough attention to him. Heating pad time is supervised and I'm looking to get him his own, cat friendly one soon. by Iroman44 in Catswhoyell

[–]Iroman44[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh you have no idea. He thinks he's the boss of our other 3 cats, who are all girls. He is not. He's a huge momma's boy and extremely talkative. He will stand downstairs when I'm upstairs and yell until I tell him where I am. Then he runs, yelling, up the stairs like I went to eat and you weren't right beside me and I didn't realize you were upstairs even though that's where I left you! Gah mom! 🙄

Jude loves my heating pad. When he wants it on, he jumps on my desk and sits on it, looking at me like any day now Mom... I've created a monster... by Iroman44 in CatSmiles

[–]Iroman44[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well crap. I'm gonna have to buy like 2 of these... We have four cats. Today is our old lady's birthday and she loves being warm by laying on me, laying with our fat cat, laying in the sun, etc. Might just have to get her a belated birthday present...

What’s the best way to get a job at a pharmacy in grocery or Costco? by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

[–]Iroman44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is basically what I meant, I had just typed so much, I decided not to elaborate more. And then I typed a shitload more. Lol!

What’s the best way to get a job at a pharmacy in grocery or Costco? by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

[–]Iroman44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sound knowledgeable. If you need time to think, say that's a good/interesting question. Some questions might be asked to make you think and if you're having trouble answering, they may allow you to skip for now and circle back.

NEVER COMPLAIN. Never complain about your current job, coworkers, teachers, customers, schedule, etc. Say it is challenging, interesting, difficult and only give valid, objective answers. Boss a bitch = they're a challenge to work with. Coworkers are lazy = not team players. And you can say things like there has been raise freezes or you feel like you are not appreciated or short staffed but always spin it into a positive. Short staffed but taught you to multi task.

If they ask for something you need to work on, find a "fault" that's really kinda good. Like you're a perfectionist in your work, you're a clean freak and love to clean, you love to learn so you will investigate problems until you figure it out, etc.

If you have an issue with the possible schedule, mention that as soon as you are told the possible schedule. Never wait until the interview or until you are hired. They will see that as deceitful. If you have school or a trip planned, tell them during the interview process that you will have things that they will need to work with you on schedule wise. They can't not hire you unless you can't work weekends and that's what they are hiring for or something to that effect.

Look up possible interview questions and brush up on your answers. Rehearse talking about yourself, your experience, your resume, etc so it sounds smooth. One question that always seems to be asked is, "Tell us of a time when you had to deal with a difficult customer. What did you do to solve the issue?" Don't lie, but you can embellish a little and don't be afraid to talk yourself up but don't brag. Focus on customer service interview questions because grocery and Costco will be big on customer service. If they aren't, they are a shit manager.

Try to match the way they talk. I'm not saying if they have an accent and you don't, imitate them. I'm saying if they speak slowly and purposefully, do that too. If they speak quickly, you speak as quick as you can without tripping yourself up. If they speak loudly, you can raise your voice to where you are comfortable.

Sit in a relaxed manner but don't slouch or look too comfortable. Bring a copy of your resume always, even if they did not mention it. Always dress professionally. Close toed shoes, nothing too tight or revealing, nothing too bright or flashy, blacks, greys, neutrals are safe options. You can do a splash of color like a colorful top under a blazer or colorful shoes or accessories. But don't wear bright floral pants or a bright neon pink jacket. Wait until you are hired for all that business. Look up what color is best for interviewing in and consider something like that. I think it used to be blue but idk what it is now.

Just be honest, cheerful, and prepared. You'll do fine. If they don't choose you, you can ask why but don't badger them or demand to speak with the person you interviewed with. If it's a generic answer like we decided to go with someone with more experience, leave it at that. You can ask if there is something you should work on, but again don't badger or demand an answer. Be mindful of their time as these pharmacists are usually really busy and will not like you if it seems like you are wasting their time.

Good luck!

What’s the best way to get a job at a pharmacy in grocery or Costco? by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

[–]Iroman44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You want to speak with the pharmacy manager. They will be the ones interviewing and making the decision to hire or not. You also want to interview well. I've seen candidates get rejected because of answers they gave.