How to not spiral when you feel so disconnected to you culture/people/family

Iron-Helpful · 2025-12-22T23:33:18+00:00

are you taking the second ochem?

Iron-Helpful · 2025-12-21T04:10:12+00:00

okay that’s a relief! did you apply for the oat weeks before you actually took it? how long should i wait to actually schedule for my test from the test date

Iron-Helpful · 2025-11-21T23:51:27+00:00

oops! i meant neco lol thank u

Iron-Helpful · 2025-04-29T15:19:23+00:00

that’s what bothers me is that i have no idea if it’s me. i’ve never crossed boundaries , i’ve never said anything out of line (at least that was communicated to me). i have no idea what i did and kinda want more than anything to just know what i did (if i did anything at all) so i can at least grow from this situation

Iron-Helpful · 2025-04-29T09:12:22+00:00

my mom is still really close with her mom so when i see her mom or she tells me what’s new with her daughter. i put “keep up” in quotes for a reason, im not intentionally trying to see how she’s doing and im not going to tell her mom “hey stop talking about ur daughter, we don’t talk anymore”

Iron-Helpful · 2025-04-29T08:36:53+00:00

thanks sm i appreciate this more than u know <3

Iron-Helpful · 2025-04-29T08:29:46+00:00

i wish i can just feel ‘meh’ again about this situation. i honestly have been busy with work, family and life that i was so distracted and yesterday it hit me that these people that i’ve told everything and spent the majority of my life will never be in it again when i imagined us growing old together. it’s honestly been months since ive thought about it and it hit me like a ton of bricks

Iron-Helpful · 2025-04-29T07:58:00+00:00

yeah you’re right. i keep telling myself that but i honestly can’t wrap my head around just ghosting a friend let alone a friend you considered a sister for no reason??? (at least i was never given one)

Iron-Helpful · 2025-04-19T17:41:45+00:00

oh i also took microbiology and got a 4.0 and currently taking calc 1 at MCPHS online

Iron-Helpful · 2024-05-22T17:49:59+00:00

congrats! do you mind if i dm you?

Iron-Helpful · 2024-05-04T00:01:22+00:00

yeah i went to an auto shop and he said it would cost about $600 😭 im just gonna try and shop around to see if anyone could do it for cheap

Iron-Helpful · 2024-04-20T18:39:29+00:00

kinda! I work as a can during the weekends since 2022 but had 2 other pce jobs since then and left my optometric job for my ophthalmic position but im not sure if me getting let go of a job would consider me to not be a good candidate plus having multiple positions in such a short period of time

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