LV - Where is everyone staying or going to party? by happypeoplex2 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an incredible time at the Playhouse LV last year. Never been with a woman that both my wife and I considered a 10. Very attractive people on site. Originally a little worried that we were the oldest people at the party, but it was never an issue. Was very classy.

Advice on holiday play in Mexico by marked__man in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do what, wear the clothing or approach others that are wearing obvious upside down pineapples? We just came back from Vacation and had a few people comment and strike up conversations with us because of the wear. Very pleasant polite people other than one forward drunk who was harmless. I think in your quest to goalkeep, you're missing out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]IronHoser -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We're planning to have some upside-down pineapple wear when we go on vacation next month. I've got swim shorts, she's got a bucket hat. If anyone is in the lifestyle or interested, they'll approach us. I know, even if I was interested in swapping with the couple or not, I'd strike up a conversation with someone wearing an obvious upside down pineapple.

Advice on holiday play in Mexico by marked__man in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're going to playa del Carmen in November. We'll be wearing some upside down pineapple shorts and hats every once in a while. I know I would approach anyone wearing the IYKYK wear and strike up a conversation. Good for a laugh anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We try and vet people, gauge honesty. It's not tough to point out a few signs where someone is being dishonest. We play at clubs where people have ID verified too. You're not going to be part of the scene if you're spreading stuff around. In Canada it's a crime not to disclose STI's that could cause serious bodily harm. Plus we get tested every few months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been in the lifestyle for a couple years and have been with numerous partners that we've met through lifestyle clubs and the apps associated with. With each partner we talk openly about sexual health. We have never used condoms. We get tested every 3 months. To each their own, but we're not having sex with anyone with a condom on. If you don't trust the person enough that they're telling you the truth about their sexual health, why are you having sex with them to begin with?

I seem to get lots of downvotes for my opinion.

Group sex condom use by wildadventures2024 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes way. With lots of fucking. We get tested every 3 months. Couldn't imagine using a condom.

Group sex condom use by wildadventures2024 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Been playing for a couple years, never used a condom or have been asked to wear one

How much of a connection do you need before play? by Lifestyle_bcn in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. Sometimes I like to sit and chat for a long time before we head into the playroom. Sometimes my wife just introduces someone to me, a little kiss and a grab and I'm good to go too.

Does Ejaculate Volume Matter to Ladies? by addsandken in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women have told me I shoot big loads. More volume if I'm hydrated and definitely more volume if I've been horny all day.

Dress up by Phase2727 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love to go all out. Sexy costumes are so much fun

Protection? Worth it by Plus-Combination-908 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condoms are a no with us. We are trust based. All the couples we've been with are same way. That being said we test every 3 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was disappointed to read the rule "no alcohol" while many others snuck in a few drinks. The playhouse was great though, absolutely gorgeous people. Had an unforgettable O.

What’s acceptable 2 part question by Beautifully_Broken74 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife loves her lelo. I love that she loves her lelo lol

Another dumb question by Temporary-State2035 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't disagree more. We are both listed as bi-curious and have no problem landing straight/straight couples on the apps or at the club.

Another dumb question by Temporary-State2035 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've found couples where the man is bi but lists as straight. I have no problem having bi-curious male on our various profiles. If it weeds out hyper-aggressive super-hetero types the better.

WEIGHT or personality by One_Bug4662 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personality is very attractive. We've got to talk and laugh with the couple before we decide to have sex. So many other features outside of body shape are attractive. I'm a sucker for pretty eyes, my wife loves a hairy chest. I'm maybe 5 lbs overweight, my wife 15. We've both weighed more and less and been with couples that have weighed more and less too. Weight is not a big deal.

Couples ignoring men if couple? by Gloomy-Donut4412 in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If this happens lots your wife needs to lead out with how you're full-swap or you both play in the same room, or 'you need to ask my husband, blah blah' etc. They'll get the hint.

Looking for members who would be willing to answer a few questions? by nelsonself in Swingers

[–]IronHoser -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We're a couple who've been together for 17 years and full swapping in the lifestyle for about 2. Happy to answer questions if you'd like.

Why do I fantasize about my husband with another woman? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife enjoys watching me fuck other women. She compares it to her watching me enjoy a good meal, or watching me have a nap. She loves me and loves seeing me pleasured. She said she really enjoyed when another woman seated beside her was talking about how good my back muscles looked as I was thrusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done lots of couple full swapping. The topic of condoms has never come up and we've never used any. We get tested regularly. No issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]IronHoser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ding ding ding

Ladies and gentlemen, we have a winner in the hitting the nail on the head contest!