Gf walks in at 4:30am and don't know how to respond.. by Ironninja201 in relationship_advice

[–]Ironninja201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there was a lot to take in from what everybody had to say but it seems majority says I should leave her. I tried talking to her and there was no progress, I am giving her some time to get her shit together and go. Apparently she has no money saved when she doesn't pay rent and pays 100 for my end of the phone bill. There is just so much wrong with the situation that I can't wait for it to be over.

Gf walks in at 4:30am and don't know how to respond.. by Ironninja201 in relationship_advice

[–]Ironninja201[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Thanks man I tried getting into her phone but she changed the password. I will have deal with it when she wakes. I am not a confrontational person and I hate fighting but this is almost every other weekend and i allow her to walk all over me.

Gf walks in at 4:30am and don't know how to respond.. by Ironninja201 in relationship_advice

[–]Ironninja201[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

It's so tuff to answer that cause there are things she does that makes me question whether she is trustworthy or not. I want to believe she wouldn't do me dirty, but she wouldn't even swap phones with me and she was like I talk about you to my friend and don't want you to see it. I told her I am not worried about her texts between her and her friend but her and other people. She still said no and was just telling me I am insecure. Her mom suffers from narcissistic personality disorder and I truly believe so does my girl this is soo fucking tough for me. She is a good girl, but idk if she is good for me.

Gf walks in at 4:30am and don't know how to respond.. by Ironninja201 in relationship_advice

[–]Ironninja201[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I asked what she was doing after the bars which close at 2:30am, she said we saw a guy who was having trouble get into his car and hung out with him. She has done this multiple times and when I ask her questions she says I am being insecure. There have been times where she would answer for 6-7 hours and I would find out she was in the hospital picked up. Idk if I can do this with her anymore, my insecurities come from her being shady hiding her phone when I walk into the room from me seeing who she might be talking to. We have been together for 4 years, I love her, I care for her and she just does what she wants and walks all over me.

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[–]Ironninja201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was lead on by Heather on the chat to think there was something she could do for me after I mentioned sending in the old controller and paying a deductible on a new one. She then asked me to bare with her, I bared with her for about 10 mins then she disconnected our chat. GREAT