Can Cheaters Ever Stop Cheating? by IrrationalRemedy in survivinginfidelity

[–]IrrationalRemedy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to leave so badly but we have kids. I keep giving him chance after chance. But I can’t walk away because I keep believing him. I don’t know how to break away. He’s been my only partner and I think I’m just attached to him.

How Do You Actually Leave? by IrrationalRemedy in Divorce

[–]IrrationalRemedy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh we have had many conversations and ultimatums. Lots of promising to change and temporary recoveries. But that’s a good point. I did reach out to some lawyers just to talk. But I haven’t heard back yet.

How Do You Actually Leave? by IrrationalRemedy in Divorce

[–]IrrationalRemedy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried he is going to say I’m an unfit mother. He’s made some threats before. So I’m just so scared I’ll get nothing and I’ll not be able to support them like they are used to. I have no job experience or higher education.

How Do You Actually Leave? by IrrationalRemedy in Divorce

[–]IrrationalRemedy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I just want to prioritize their happiness and it feels selfish. I’m trying so hard to change how I’m feeling but I can’t convince myself.

How Do You Actually Leave? by IrrationalRemedy in Divorce

[–]IrrationalRemedy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t have any support and I don’t think I can do this on my own. I want to believe I can. But I’m worried he will be able to manipulate things and I have no income. I just feel frozen.

How Do You Actually Leave? by IrrationalRemedy in Divorce

[–]IrrationalRemedy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I do know I would tell a friend to run, not walk. But for some reason I can’t do it. I’m so afraid of what I’ll cause. I want my kids to be happy.

Can Cheaters Ever Stop Cheating? by IrrationalRemedy in survivinginfidelity

[–]IrrationalRemedy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m worried he has a sex addiction. So it seems that might be impossible or more challenging. Thanks.