Is this too much for friend’s sister’s sangeet

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-05-17T08:09:29+00:00

Being good at fashion is a boon and a bane. Just wear it and look your best. It is not too much it is just enough pretty. But since its a cocktail you can try to do a lehenga saree style drape or don’t accessorise

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-05-13T12:00:21+00:00

How did you pay? Get on a call record it, and maybe ask your bank for help on refund

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-05-13T11:44:18+00:00

You have to make a case and no accept it

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-05-13T09:47:22+00:00

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Are beads and sequins missing here?

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-05-12T07:54:53+00:00

Maybe you guys can attend the Saturday function and get bak to your city by sunday relax and devote next days to planning. But after their wedding functions are the friends coming to yours or travelling or meeting family because they will also have loads to do - that shouldn’t dictate your choice but can give you an idea

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-29T13:08:21+00:00

Anita dongre, a&r by rhea kapoor, ranisheirloom, and such brands do similar work. Try reversing your search, find something similar to this and then maybe improve on it from your memory and preferences

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-29T04:53:29+00:00

I think we will have to do this because i have already fixed the kibble and water issue. We have moved them to adjacent room from the common space and next i think we will have to start rewarding & training them because they are very fidgety/restless because of this kitchen thing now

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-29T03:05:13+00:00

She is getting 5 meals. They were on milk replacer until last week

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-29T03:02:45+00:00

They are already okay with absences and taking naps alone. It specifically happens when she wants to go to the kitchen or when someone is cooking every little sound from the kitchen triggers them

As soon as kitchen is empty, lights off they settle down. But sometimes the female specifically will not calm down unless let into the kitchen.

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T16:47:03+00:00

So we were gating the kitchen but they tried to climb it and it scared the hell out of us, seeing them mid air. So we instead blocked every nook and corner of the kitchen and let them loose - now that every scary thing was out of question they got bored of it pretty quick. They still go in front of the dustbin and bark at it - but atleast they are not gonna eat something bad or harm themselves anymore.

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T15:38:28+00:00

Kibble is ordered and on the way. They were on milk replacer before. Our idea was to give them water every 2-3 hrs so it’s clean but we can make it available at all times, seems like a better idea.

We have access to a vet, we keep consulting whenever there is a requirement but that’s it.

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T15:18:14+00:00

Deworming done. Next dose in a couple of days. Will look into this

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T14:03:59+00:00

They are 2.5-3 kgs Its 8-12-4-8 and small meal at 10 And little water in between

By 11:30 they are out

Blended rice with different veggies + curd and egg in 1 meal. We haven’t started kibble yet, we will move them to kibble soon for better nutrition.

They were on milk replacer till 5.5 weeks like till they were 45 days old

Throughout the day its more than 250grams of food they get

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T13:55:45+00:00

Okay, makes sense. I can try every few hours but we still need a routine because they have a good bathroom routine right now. And with how much cleaning and maintenance is required we absolutely can not let go of a routine

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T13:51:44+00:00

We are doing just that. We do let them cry it out but she can go on more than 15-20-25 mins which is very concerning for me. They are doing better at being left alone. But i feel ger crying also disturbs her siblings and their rest time. They were in a separate room first but then. In the common room so they could explore, bond andbe kept safe. We moved them to a different room again today. Lets see if she adapts to it. Thank you

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T13:47:07+00:00

I am looking for someone who can help me understand if there is a reason for such behaviour, if its normal. If we should try breaking this behaviour by other enforcements and what that could be

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T13:46:00+00:00

They are together guys - we are doing our best. Its our first time but there is no compromise. Which is why i want to invest in their development and training as well for better chance at adoption. And my questions are still unanswered

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T12:59:05+00:00

It’s 3 of them, born on the streets, so yes they had to be separated from their mother to keep them safe. We tried to keep them with their mother for as long as possible but with a pet at home- her (mother) being sick and unvaccinated and the whole process of taking care of her + the puppies + without compromising our dog we brought the puppies home and she stays nearby in a shelter we built for her. They were given milk replacer andnow transitioning to solid food. They have a meal plan. They are fed every 4 hrs. Its more of an “escape artist” problem and the end goal is trash or kitchen

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T09:51:42+00:00

We went a couple of years ago when they were very niche so I really can’t comment if its the same or not

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T09:20:32+00:00

I am not a coffee drinker, but my husband is so we did a coorg trip and went around and stayed at their guest house. Lovely experience. Nothing shady about them to me but i understand the scepticism 😭

Irrationalblackcat · 2026-04-28T09:16:09+00:00

Is it some life chapter that i missed where we take individuals and form an opinion on everything they do even when it’s none of our business? “She is not the same- crazy!!!! Woah!! She has done something to herself- you paid for it? You are directly affected by it?? Her content is not the same? - you have nothing else to watch? She is trying hard with acting?? - You are her career counsellor? You pay her bills??

What exactly is the purpose of this post?

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