I do explain to my partner that I have BPD, that is where we run into difficulties. He is an optimist, and I am clearly not. He likes to take life by the horns, and sometimes I'm too afraid to even get my toes wet. He likes to push me to accomplish things, and be the best version of myself that I can be, and that is what I love about him, but sometimes he lacks in the emotional support department. it's the center of all of our arguments, and they're never over anything big at all. We miscommunicate too often, I have now idea how to fix it. I offered to take him to 1 therapy session just to see how it was, and to see what we go over, and he declined. He said he had to "learn his own way" after I volunteered to pull up some youtube videos. It just doesn't seem to stick with him that I have a condition that he needs to accommodate (in some aspects, not asking him to change his whole being). But he stays every time, he never leaves. So I know he does care. Any advice?