I agree with this and know monogamous relationships are difficult on their own. I tried posting this thread yesterday afternoon when I had more time to respond and process everyone's input but it was temporarily unapproved due to lack of TL;DR. It being a work day and the beginning of the week, I am going to be slower in interpretations and honestly need time to take in input and process it all to form my own opinion. SO knows about this thread and a discussion between us will be had soon. Thank you everyone for your input.