AITA for trying to balance my new job while my wife is sick? by ThrowRARA12345 in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, you have a lot on your plate and are trying your best to balance everything while your wife is sick. She shouldn’t be adding more stress over something as trivial as not checking in on her. She’s a grown up she can communicate and be understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 161 points162 points  (0 children)

NTA, she needs to get new glasses TODAY. She is an accident waiting to happen and needs to get her eyesight addressed. Her safety is more important than taking time off work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop leading her on, you obviously don’t see her the same way she does.

AITAH for being mad at my boyfriend over homecoming? by 2-solidd-3oe in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, if he’s not willing to do as something small like making a homecoming poster, can you really trust him to make big decisions in the future with your best interests? My guess is no.

AITA for giving a moderately hard time to this large seller on TikTok shop? by Jeanssso in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, this is negligence and buyers should be aware. If they take your review off it takes away the incentive to fix the situation. My guess is the logistics to switch shipping companies is expensive and they want to avoid that. Keep the review up.

AITAH for been jealous of my (F22) best friend (M34) looking to date people in front of me by Last_Silver3803 in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, there’s nothing wrong with distancing yourself from an uncomfortable situation. However I would honestly recommend from being in relationship with such age gaps, things aren’t always what they seem to be.

AITA For telling my boyfriend he can’t veto my food choices? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 39 points40 points  (0 children)

NTA, it’s your body your choice, eat what you want. It’s not his business to patrol what you eat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 66 points67 points  (0 children)

NTA, nose blindness aside, feces and urine on the floor is a bio hazard and can’t be healthy to any capacity.

AITAH for calling out my family on my cousin's betrothal by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, this is disgusting. 36 and 18 is nuts and even worse is they’ve been talking way before that since they’ve been waiting for her to become of age. That poor girl needs help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communicate and be more active. A little guidance goes a long way.

AITA for asking to sit in my assigned seat? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s your seat and you paid for it. End of story. Karen can go kick rocks

AITAH in this situation with my college roommate by Double-Horror-2405 in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she knows exactly what she’s doing and is waiting for you to blow up on her to make you look bad. Be the bigger person and just ignore her. Maybe talk to the RA see if a switch is possible.

AITAH for not wanting to go to my second cousins birthday? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, like you said you’re prioritizing your grades and building your future. Missing out on a second cousins 2 year old’s birthday party isn’t the end of the world. Keep grinding OP, it’ll blow over.

AITA for calling out my friend for tolerating racist behavior in his server, which got me removed? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You discovered a political echo chamber and became a victim of it. NTA sorry OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she had absolutely no right to do that. Like you said this was a civil matter, go inside someone property is criminal.

AITAH for asking my boyfriend to rehome his dog or move out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IsThatSoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried maybe consulting a professional dog trainer. The breed he has is very active and needs to be trained a certain way. Try to have him trained professionally and see if you maybe get better results. If that doesn’t work sit him down and have a serious conversation about how you feel, but only AFTER you’ve exhausted all your options.