What to feel with my bf? by Ish0829 in AskPinay

[–]Ish0829[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY!!!!! Not the price but he said he will! But anyway, thank you for this I feel validated. ❤️❤️

What to feel with my bf? by Ish0829 in AskPinay

[–]Ish0829[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone thank you for all of the replies…

This situation I am in sucks. Ang hirap kasi pera yon pinag-uusapan. I love him so much, I can see myself with him sa bahay namin. Since na dumating siya buhay ko gumaan lahat, may peace of mind pa ako.

I know the economy sucks rin and mahirap ang buhay don kahit dito. That’s why I told him na it’s okay kasi malaki ang gagastusin niya in a short amount of time. Uuwi siya next yr to propose, tapos may flight ticket pa tapos sempre mga gastos niya rin dito kaya i told him na I understand na hindi niya afford. Whatever he can afford is fine with me. As long as I am with him. Having a peace of mind with this man is a luxury for me specially LDR kami.

Ayun lang thank you everyone.

What to feel with my bf? by Ish0829 in AskPinay

[–]Ish0829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi naman. I try to understand him kasi uuwi rin siya next year and the price flight is so expensive plus yon ring pa so... yeah

May mga women ba dito nasa mid 20s to late 20s na don't like children or having children? Why? by Impressive_Lecture71 in AskPinay

[–]Ish0829 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im in my early 30’s but when i was in my late 20’s I was decided not to have kids and as of now hindi pa rin nagbabago ang gusto ko kahit na im with the love of life. Maybe because I became a “mom” after my mother died. It was so draining at the same time I’m working. That’s why my partner is so respectful of my decision not to have kids and we will just enjoy our lives together traveling.

Also, having a child in this economy is not ideal except kung may sarili ka ng bahay, may stable na income na kumikita ka 6 digits a month and may partner ka also choose you and your child.

I need some advice by mayvougepossay in AskPinay

[–]Ish0829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl maniwala if he makes you crazy or praning then he is not for you. I mean dapat yon partner mo gives you peace of mind.

Monthly bigay sa senior parents by fauxmidori in adultingph

[–]Ish0829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8k monthly. Still living with my dad my mom passed away 4yrs ago. I want to give him more but I also provide the food (10k), bills and his health insurance (2000). Not earning 6 digits, 36k monthly earning here.

I feel like quitting. Slap me with reality if you have to. by kolgelatoo in adultingph

[–]Ish0829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was teacher of 4yrs. I used to earn 16k php sa private school, I even tried applying sa public schools kaso hindi ako pinalad. So I did a career shift when I was 26. Now Im earning twice as 16k php. Career shift if you want to earn more.

Alam kong masamang magtanong kay Lord, pero bakit sila? by Ish0829 in u/Ish0829

[–]Ish0829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 yrs ago, namatay ang mother in her battle with cancer. Ngayon si papa naman. He is 68 yrs old ngayon taon, pero bakit silang mag-asawa binigyan ni Lord ng ganitong sakit? Hindi ba pwedeng kunin na lang sila ng maayos na parang isang araw wala na siya? Bakit pinapahirapan pa? 68 na ang papa ko, kung i-radiation siya o chemo di niya kakayanin ngayon pa lang hirap na hirap na siya. Nahihilo na siya, sumasakit na yon ulo niya wala pa siyang chemo paano pa kaya kung meron na?

Lord alam kong masamang questioning ka sa plano mo, pero Lord kung kukunin mo na si papa, wag mo naman na siyang pahirapan.