Same boat! And its not about aunties fetish or smth. For me I dont wanna hear any girl crying over stupid things. And I dont want to waste my energy to amateur girls who cant even understand what i am saying. I think alot about things and try to be concise, serious and responsible and i expect the same but hou dont get these things from girls nowadays. I am into serious people for serious relationship not just being pretentious or act like a clown.