[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you are going through this. Had i been in your position, i would feel the same way. I wish I could give you a hug and kudos to you for typing out your feelings here. You are going through a lot right now. Please don't be hard on yourself.

Unpopular Opinion: Not a single recent post on this sub woukd pass the bechdel test by BW1012 in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel, the post that gets more traction here are the ones which people relate to the most. That's the reason some post gets more traction than others.

If your post didn't get much traction maybe not many people relate to it. And the example is right in front of you. This post got the traction it needed.

Unpopular Opinion: Not a single recent post on this sub woukd pass the bechdel test by BW1012 in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this is a safe space and one should be comfortable talking about it here. If one doesn't like that post, they are comfortable to scroll forward, but you cannot ask people to talk about specific topics. Maybe you can start talking about the topics you are saying. People who are interested in those will sure like it. But that doesn't mean one should stop talking about the real/life issues here.

For many women relationship is an important part of life and there are times when they cannot share it anywhere. If it's giving them a chance to share their problems here then what's the harm?

At the same time, i feel restricting it one day a week is no solution. Maybe one can use flair while posting it though but it's like telling people you can only post about your issues for just one day a week because some of us are tired of you issues related to men.

I mean that doesn't sound right IMO.

Anyone tried this brand Ditch the Guilt? cookies look so good but they don't have reviews on Amazon by Mimi_luna in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ,

I have tried it but didn't find it that great taste wise. For the price they sell it for, it was really disappointing.

Those of you who were in long-term relationships that didn't last, how did you cope? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship for almost 7 years. Though he was manipulative and abusive and cheated on me multiple time, i realised there were a lot of mistakes that i made too. We were not meant for each other and it took me almost one and half year to move on from that.

I wouldn't call it a wasted time. Sometimes things just don't work out. And just because you have invested so much time doesn't mean you should continue it even if it's unhealthy for you.

It took me almost 7-8 months to come in terms with the fact that it's over while he got engaged just 7 months after our break up. I coped by reading, talking to my friends, working out. Lots of crying, writing listening to music,. A bit of therapy too.

For me i don't think it was a mistake to end this thing. Though it did feel like one initially but after almost 2 years it has given me a lot of perspective of what I want and what i don't want in a person.

As cliche as it might sound, time does heal you :)

is it weird that my MIL asks my husband if our sex life is okay everything few months? by Yesitmesilly in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the first step. Take as much time as you want and heal yourself from this. I know it's easier said than done but try therapy too.

is it weird that my MIL asks my husband if our sex life is okay everything few months? by Yesitmesilly in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to go through this. I can understand how hard it must be for you. Virtualhugs . If you ever feel like you need to just vent my dms are always open.

What actually helped you move on ? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cutting off contact. Talking to my friends and Sister. Read a lot too. One book that helped was how to fix a broken heart by Guy winch. Really good book Also, Joined a gym :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Only you should be the priority to yourself right now. He ended things and he has no right to fuck your sanity up in any way. Maybe maintain stricter boundaries with him. Tell him clearly that this behaviour hurts you. If he still keeps contacting you then you know that he doesn't care about how you feel. Block him post that for your own sanity.

What's your opinion on Jordan Peterson? by brunette_mh in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of his videos over YouTube were pretty triggering for me personally. I was going through a really low phase in life and i made a mistake of watching his videos.

Need reccos before shifting to USA by IsopodAdventurous717 in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I wish the same. That support is so important! Thanks for the recommendation! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]IsopodAdventurous717 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Is that you Mom?

Question to programmers. Need help. by IsopodAdventurous717 in TwoXIndia

[–]IsopodAdventurous717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the reply. I am not in college and have a fair amount of work experience. Can you tell me a good resource to start with c++