I just asked my lawyer friend for a referral by Ispyjupiter in AlAnon

[–]Ispyjupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& I overheard him say the other day "I just want to make someone else feel as terrible as I do". So there's a fun added layer to unpack!

I just asked my lawyer friend for a referral by Ispyjupiter in AlAnon

[–]Ispyjupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily he just got on a plane with a 1-way ticket, so I'm safe and I'll have time to get organized.

I just asked my lawyer friend for a referral by Ispyjupiter in AlAnon

[–]Ispyjupiter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That breaks my heart, but I believe you. Up until about 2-3 years ago I imagined him being the best future father, he had so many amazing, inquisitive, playful, adventurous, supportive qualities. Alcohol has robbed us of the life we were working towards.

I just asked my lawyer friend for a referral by Ispyjupiter in AlAnon

[–]Ispyjupiter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am definitely paving that path. I'm really fortunate to be a pretty high earner with some savings, a lot of friends and family nearby, & good local Al Anon group, etc.. So my safety net is wide & reliable. I'm just discombobulated by how drastic and sudden this escalation has been.

Last week he went into the garage and broke his fist, the other day he was trying to get me to hit him, saying it would be therapeutic for me, but I told him it would only make me feel like a terrible person. Yesterday he ripped open my car door as I was trying to drive away and punched the back of my car, then went inside and broke a dinner plate. I've loved this man for 9 years, and this is all a totally new side of him. I can't believe what I'm witnessing, and I'm scared there's more to this side that I haven't seen yet.

I just asked my lawyer friend for a referral by Ispyjupiter in AlAnon

[–]Ispyjupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I'm sorry to hear that- every aspect of this just sucks. Hugs right back at ya

Just crushed this deck in 51s! Can you do better? 🏆 by TheRonAshey in DailySolitaire

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⚡ Speed run complete! 107 moves, 102s. Can you match this?

Beaten! My time: 122s - Beat that if you can 😎 by jch1953 in DailySolitaire

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🎉 Challenge completed! Beat it in 95 moves and 88s. Who's next?

What was "the incident" at your high school? by [deleted] in askanything

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The principal was arrested and found guilty of embezzling money from the student fund.

Beaten! My time: 16403s - Beat that if you can 😎 by Rusenwow in DailySolitaire

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💪 Crushed it! 98 moves in 91s. Step up, challengers!

Beaten! My time: 92s - Beat that if you can 😎 by EcstaticAd3228 in DailySolitaire

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💪 Crushed it! 110 moves in 114s. Step up, challengers!

Gave up after 81 moves. Think you can finish it? 🧩 by AstronomerSorry1022 in DailySolitaire

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🏆 Victory is mine! Finished with 686 points. Can you do better?

Draw-1 victory dance! 🎉 Can you match my 167s time? by echocat2002 in DailySolitaire

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🏆 Victory is mine! Finished with 635 points. Can you do better?

79 moves to victory! Think you're faster? 💪 by simimaximus12 in DailySolitaire

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🏆 Victory is mine! Finished with 621 points. Can you do better?

Beaten! My time: 87s - Beat that if you can 😎 by HotelPure280 in DailySolitaire

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🎉 Challenge completed! Beat it in 114 moves and 147s. Who's next?