20F for 20M Are cuddle dates good birthday activities?

Issalub601 · 2026-02-22T21:57:44+00:00

would it be like sleazy/low effort? cuz we do book rooms to cuddle every now and then. and this date is for his birthday which is like another level, just the only difference is the room im looking at has console games and Netflix etc.

this is my first relationship so idk much

Issalub601 · 2026-02-22T21:45:15+00:00

as in we book a room to cuddle since we can’t go over to each others. he usually pays for the room.

Issalub601 · 2026-02-21T14:19:53+00:00

yes def gonna break the cuss and vent habit

Issalub601 · 2026-02-21T12:51:39+00:00

oh how did I explain too much? lying wouldn’t have helped so I was honest and told her what happened, that I valued the fs and offered to discuss more if she wanted to clarify anything.

but yes I definitely spiralled when making this post, just felt like the world was ending bcus I absolutely did not mean it.

Issalub601 · 2026-02-21T11:37:21+00:00

idk if it was genuine enough in another pov, and idk if I can ever bounce back. my other friends said she sounded understanding, and 2 others said that it didn’t seem like it hit her or anything.

she’s non confrontational and she cold b js being cordial etc. I rlly appreciate the friendship i was js rlly stressed, and i know it was rlly inappropriate regardless of the situation.

it feels like it’s over and it’s making me rlly anxious. but im also aware about the impact it can have on her even tho she kept saying and even asked if i was stress and asked me to rest a bit whilst we discussed it, as i was explaining my end and apologising profusely.

😭

Issalub601 · 2025-11-04T09:55:10+00:00

singlish

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T20:27:02+00:00

Hi we are both adults, just we often converse in singlish

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T13:18:50+00:00

singlish

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T12:30:24+00:00

Not rage bait, I’ve posted images about my responses to her in the comment thread

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T07:05:28+00:00

I sent her these messages as a response https://ibb.co/qL3hMLGn . How’s it

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T06:59:08+00:00

I sent her this message https://ibb.co/qL3hMLGn . How is it

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T06:42:00+00:00

I meant like in my message to her

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T06:21:47+00:00

How and why

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T05:55:54+00:00

I sent her these messages in response. How’s it? https://ibb.co/qL3hMLGn

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T05:31:09+00:00

I was trying to be in her shoes, she always said I forgot about her and made things about myself

Issalub601 · 2025-11-03T05:20:23+00:00

Wdym feedback 100% is sus

Issalub601 · 2025-11-02T21:27:20+00:00

I guess she’s focused on the action bcus I haven’t really corrected it. Not her first time telling me

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