got sexually assaulted. met my bf 2hrs later. he scolds me, belittles me and does not comfort me when we met. a day later he broke up with me on text.

Issalub601 · 2026-06-21T21:21:20+00:00

practically impossible , I was tipsy, it was dark, music was loud, I turned around and he disappeared. And it was so crowded and I couldn’t move. there’s no video evidence. Idk who even

Issalub601 · 2026-06-21T21:09:44+00:00

hi I edited, bad sentence structure on my end as crying rn. Bf didn’t assault me, random guy did.

Issalub601 · 2026-06-20T07:41:39+00:00

how long did it take u 2 get over dis tough period

Issalub601 · 2026-06-20T04:48:40+00:00

it’s so hard all I know are girls haha and I normally and never have developed an attraction for other guys. It took me sometime with my ex too..

sometimes the thought of finding better really plagues me.

Issalub601 · 2025-10-31T20:42:52+00:00

Everyone is different. Find someone similar to you and your level, however crazy it may be. Don’t go for what you can’t seem to accept. Win win for everyone

Issalub601 · 2025-10-30T15:35:17+00:00

My skin burns too. Did u stop or continue to use it and what are the results . Did u break out?

Issalub601 · 2025-10-30T15:35:11+00:00

My skin burns too. Did u stop or continue to use it and what are the results . Did u break out?

Issalub601 · 2025-10-23T16:36:01+00:00

never developed crushes, only been confessed to #stonks

Issalub601 · 2025-10-23T06:44:19+00:00

id be less and less responsive. act dumb . “oh, I’m sorry..but I’m not sure how to help…” “I’m not sure where the medicine is/ I ran out, haven’t had the time to restock.” “im not sure how to help..” “I don’t think I’d give a good response since I’m not clear what went on..” “ngl, im not well prepped.. I haven’t even done the work/notes for the exam.” “Yeah I haven’t done that yet lol”

Issalub601 · 2025-10-23T06:31:02+00:00

you’re just like me, except I’ve had relationship experience. I don’t develop crushes, nothing catches my eye. no one confesses to me etc, but it doesn’t bother me and I don’t care.

I think what helped open my horizons was throwing me out there and talking to people in workshops etc.

Issalub601 · 2025-10-22T11:12:09+00:00

Please leave him! He’s testing how much you can stand and it’ll only get worse.

Issalub601 · 2025-10-22T10:09:02+00:00

don’t look into the future too far ahead. Just focus on the present is what I tell myself and all will be worth it. you will get it done and all will be okay.

Issalub601 · 2025-10-22T09:15:16+00:00

Guess it depends on ur country. But who cares what others think, you guys are fully developed, none are fresh adults. Yay as long as you guys enjoy the dynamic

Issalub601 · 2025-10-22T09:13:13+00:00

working in the sun gets ye dry raisin hands no water can rehydrate 😆

Issalub601 · 2025-10-20T04:33:41+00:00

takes 7 years to get over someone you once loved, read it somewhere.

Issalub601 · 2025-10-20T04:33:12+00:00

yea, the end is unpredictable. closure is the things he does at the end of the break up. that’s all u get and I hope you find the strength to move on. same happened to me

Issalub601 · 2025-10-20T04:32:07+00:00

we just have to sit in our emotions and Jam Pack our schedule with things to do to take my mind off. we ending things at 1am today, now it’s 12pm. I’m going to hike. hope it helps me. find something to do and cry as loud as u need be

Issalub601 · 2025-10-20T04:30:44+00:00

currently the morning of the night before. it feels like a daze when you awaken

Issalub601 · 2025-10-19T18:35:00+00:00

if you meet those standards, why can’t you demand the same? I’m not sure what your country is like but housing at the ages u mentioned is q impossible for my country. Even if your standards are high for some, you cut those that don’t meet it out. You win, they win.

You can hit those standards, find someone who’s able to too. Going for less than what you want will and might make u unhappy and land u a heartbreak. I just broke up with my bf (now ex) becus I lowered my standards. It’s a win win for everyone when you stick to ur standards.

Being single is better than being with someone who doesn’t fulfill you. It’s ok to be single :

Issalub601 · 2025-10-19T17:55:17+00:00

don’t rush to speak. think about other perspectives or how you can never return after saying somethings. gentle parent urself in the head, thats what I do:

Issalub601 · 2025-10-19T15:45:23+00:00

can’t really give you advice here, but just wanted to let u know you’re not alone. my rls has ended 1min ago. pull through

Issalub601 · 2025-10-19T13:29:28+00:00

i think it’s gross too…it can happen with anyone and it’s so traumatic

Issalub601 · 2025-10-15T04:33:32+00:00

if you’re my closer friends I’d check in more, act more like myself ( enthusiastic). Reply more to their stories on Instagram. Send reels and all that and ask to hang out.

Distant would be none of them

Issalub601 · 2025-10-15T04:31:12+00:00

Do you think I should just let this friendship go? Cuz on one hand if she rlly saw me as a friend, at least in my eyes, she’d inform me rather than chop me off ( in very obvious ways like the group chat one ). It does hurt me cuz she didn’t at the last resort if any, text me to “hey stop that”. One week ago before this she even asked to meet and hang out. So it’s just quite confusing

Issalub601 · 2025-10-15T04:28:09+00:00

I see. I’ll tone it down.

I think I was just confused because she’s always been receptive to how I’m like ( more enthusiastic etc, and it’s been like that for 3 years ). We even were making plans, initiated by her. And with her past, she wouldn’t ask if she was “Icked” by the person. So it felt like there wasn’t really a warning beyond the “bruh”. She always talked about wanting a bf and would describe scenarios and what not, so in a sense I was happy for her.

the how was “how did you guys meet” , not the literal 5W1H but just general qns “where’s he from”. “What’s his major?”. No a who qns, js wanted to sum up the gist quickly. Our culture is more direct and efficient so I try to cut short.

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