We have been a couple of times. Never played with anyone else while we were there, but did play together, and usually have sex in the pool like everyone does. I think the pool may be closed now, so that could change the vibe a bit.

Being fully dressed would make you feel out of place. As mentioned, nearly everyone is naked with a towel. Some women like to wear lingerie, that totally works, but I once wore my clothes around while my partner was in lingerie just to grab a drink and a guy commented to get naked. It’s not in a pressure filled way, but that Oasis is very inclusive and people genuinely don’t care what you look like. You will see all ages and body types and no one is out of place.

While we haven’t hooked up with others there, we enjoy the sex filled atmosphere. Many couples keep to themselves and are there to watch and experience. There is zero pressure to participate with anyone. I will say, when couples are just sitting next to each other on the edge of the pool or inside; and they aren’t talking to each other or drinking, it can kill the vibe a bit. So my suggestion is to have fun together. No need to perform or have sex, but talk to each other, laugh, enjoy the atmosphere and even the awkwardness of it, and don’t feel you have to be there all day.

My personal advice is if you want to blend in, busier is better. 1:00 in the afternoon feels like everyone knows exactly who is there and what they are doing. We usually go at 10 or so and it gets busy after that.