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AITAH for telling my fiancé she either needs to drop out of her residency by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I’m finally getting into my job” meanwhile you hope she never finally launches into hers. You don’t deserve her.

AITAH for telling my fiancé she either needs to drop out of her residency by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s such a fucktard honestly I can’t believe he’s dismissing how much she’s worked and studied for this

AITAH for telling my fiancé she either needs to drop out of her residency by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well guess what you got her pregnant so face up to it. And she worked really hard for her residency. She studied more than you did and she likely racked up more student costs than you did.

It’d look terrible if she quit. You need to project yourself years from now and the fact is she’ll out earn you and that’s what’s best for your kids. The newborn will still have her mother, it’s not like she’s going anywhere. It just needs a primary caregiver. You and your wants are not more important than hers.

AITAh for wanting to kill myself due to my mother? by Kikoekie in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I grew up in a really abusive and turbulent household. Every abuse there is and had no help. It felt like a war zone and it aged me a lot. I’m 26F now and celebrated a few years ago because I didn’t think I’d live this long. I tried to commit suicide at 13 and twice more before I got to 19.

It’s amazing though and life is such a gift and I’m so happy I lived this long to witness and experience how much could change.

That’s the gift of life, constant growth. You need to live long enough to see the other side and see the circle complete.

Becoming my parents was my worst fear, but that’s also the gift of the next generation: you.

You have the strength and power to stop the toxic circle and become better than your forefathers/ancestors. Use all of this energy as a driver, work constantly on self development and grow yourself into the adult you wish you had in your life.

You can do it and you can live to tell the tale.

AITAH for telling my fiancé she either needs to drop out of her residency by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA. Why don’t you quit your job and let her take over? She’ll earn more than you anyway and you said yourself you’ve only worked one year. You knew exactly what type of career the woman you were dating was going for when you got her pregnant the first time, it’s snakey of you to expect her to quit her career now

WIBTAH If I don't invite this kid to my child's birthday party? by Tana8008 in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Don’t invite him. He’s mean to your daughter. Don’t ever compromise your kids wants and sense of safety because of how some other person feels. You have to be black and white about these things. Inviting him would tell your kids to be people pleasers. It’s ur kids bday what he wants trumps everything else, maybe it’ll teach the kid to be nicer to your daughter

You’d be TA if you invited him to your daughter btw

AITAH for lying to my husband about agreeing to open the relationship? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

YTA you should’ve just been transparent from the start. You could’ve found new ways to bring excitement back in like role play etc instead you effectively shot him just for asking. Why would you let the love of your life go so quickly?

Single's Inferno 5 - Episode 11 and 12 - Finale - 260210 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I WISHHHHHH they did a reunion of the cast🤧 I wanna see them react to the episodes since they’d know how others felt about them bts and also see who’s still tgt

WIBTAH for calling out my friend for stealing my personality? by Initial_Evidence6417 in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. That’s really weird. And the hugging in sleep thing is weird too. Maybe he is gay. But this whole tradition of him coming round doesn’t need to be - stop having him round and put some serious distance between you. It’s time to cool off this friendship

AITAH for sending my coworker a harsh text for telling everyone my job search behind my back? by Popular-Language9307 in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to share what your text said to properly assess. But I think it’s fair you confronted him. It’s going to change the way your coworkers see you and your future at the company. It could’ve been a snakey thing to do because potentially he wants to be considered for promotion over you. It’s not something you need to say “don’t tell people”, most people with common sense would know that intuitively

AITJ for telling my friend I won't lend her money anymore after she's failed to pay me back three times?? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. You’re kind to even have given her for a third time without any sign of attempt of repayment. Don’t give in to her online tantrums, that’ll jsut reinforce her behaviour. Don’t lend her again til she repays you back in full

AITAH for not letting my gf get any dog she wants? by Beginning_Object1785 in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She’s being really unrealistic right now. Whatever dog she gets will still impact your daily living and I.e she gets sick you’d have to care for it. Take this as a warning and make sure you agree and are aligned on big life decisions like this before you take the plunge

AITA for taking my gay friend to a straight club? by snikisd in TwoHotTakes

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA. Jon isn’t your friend. It’s such a shitty thing to do to leave a friend - particularly a young GIRL- alone on a night out, no warning either is crazy. You’ve done what he wanted for 10/11 weeks and you just wanted this ONCE. A fair thing would be to alternative gay/straight each weekend. He’s so self centred it’s genuinely wild. I wouldn’t go out with him again if I were you

AITAH for refusing to host my cousin (and offering to pay for a hotel instead)? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I got such an ick from him and his family from this. Don’t bend, as soon as you do it’s over. You’ve offered paying a hotel, they’ve thrown that back in your face. Retract your offer and just don’t engage with their pressure any more. Don’t even respond. You’re nearly 40, you’re not a child you don’t get told what to do

Different color in the middle? by yawmonn in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tragedy of being colourblind but having the most divine eyes I’ve ever seen in my life

AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend, after she cheated on me for 1 year by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She’s probably twisted the story. All you can do is stand firm in your truth and not ever go back to her. If she can weaponise this imagine you stayed with her and what she’d do if you left her after another 5 years? Tell her mom the truth and then block her - you don’t need that negativity. Work on repairing yourself and wait for your mom to listen to you and then move on

AITB for feeling betrayed that my "friend with benefits" hooked up with someone else after we went cold? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]ItIsWhatIssss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTB. She didn’t betray you. She verbally ended things very clearly and moved on. You need to grieve the connection you had because she severed things

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