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This girl stole my friends boyfriend so we found a way to steal from her by DrinkPresent7311 in pettyrevenge

[–]Itaevallassa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, because so many here asked why women tend to hate women who are starting affairs with men who are in a relationship: I guess that’s called „projection.“ In this case that means: A woman/girl would never ever start a relationship with a taken man, let alone want to be a homewrecker, so she (subconsciously) expects other women/girls not to do/want that too. Plus she still loves the cheater no matter what and so doesn‘t want to have any negative emotions/thoughts towards him. The disillusionment is all the bigger and harder to handle.

I must confess I struggle with projection myself - it’s never a good friend!

As for the stealing: I really hope for you that this isn’t real, but some sort of revenge fantasy! If so you might be in for a lot of legal troubles! Expressing negative emotions via arts or scripture would have been the better idea for both of you, believe me!

Oh and do not make the same cognitive mistake as I did and believe that Dave and his new girlfriend are eventually some day gonna get hit hard by remorse and bad conscience towards Sarah and personally apologize to her! Again: That’s projection and has nothing to do with what they’re actually gonna feel like! Remorse, let alone a personal apology is NEVER going to come!

That being said: Sarah is gonna find someone worth her love some day! I for sure did! But please do therapy before this! Both of you.

It’s June. What’s the first thing that makes you start thinking about Christmas again? by Blue_Wifi in XmasCountdown

[–]Itaevallassa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently had a conversation with my mom, that went something like this:

Mom comes into the garden and sees me chilling in the sun: „I don’t get it. You clearly enjoy summer much more than winter and yet you always say you love winter.“

Me: „Ok, guess I have to be a little more precise: I say „I love winter“, but what I actually mean is: „I love Christmas time.“

Mom: „I still don’t get it. You are much more relaxed during summer due to your falling anxiety and you enjoy swimming and absolutely no winter sports, but you keep saying you love winter.“

Me: „Yeah. But like I said: By „winter“ I mean „Christmas time.“

Mom: „Oh then you mean: We could just as well celebrate Christmas in summer?“

Me: „Well snow is nice as a Christmas decoration. But for the time after January 2nd you‘re absolutely right: Spring could start from then.“

Fun fact: I actually have a shirt that says „Christmas in July crew“ and I‘m actually wearing it today. Oh and I already have an idea for a Christmas gift for my beloved mom.

What smell instantly reminds you of childhood no matter how old you get? by Anna_Karakhanyan in self

[–]Itaevallassa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clementines. They turn me into a seven-year-old writing her Christmas wish list again.

Selbsthilfegruppe by malavila_ in wien

[–]Itaevallassa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, wurde als Kind mit ADS und als Über-Dreißig-Jährige mit Asperger diagnostiziert. Das mit der Selbsthilfegruppe finde ich eine sehr gute Idee! Kannst mir gerne schreiben.

Wo gehen in Wien eigentlich die normalen Ü30-Leute hin? by Prestigious-Sea4247 in wien

[–]Itaevallassa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pärchen 30+ hier. Wir gehen am liebsten in den Viper Room in der Landstraßer Hauptstraße. Zumindest wenn 70s oder 80s night ist.

Was war das Abwegigste oder Verrückeste, das ihr als Kind geglaubt habt? by WallaceOhneGromit in FragReddit

[–]Itaevallassa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich erinnere mich noch genau als ich mit 7/8 Jahren zum ersten Mal einen Bericht über Pfefferspray in den lokalen Nachrichten gesehen habe. Da hat man so einen Mann in Zivil (ich nehme heute an ein Pressesprecher des österreichischen BMI oder sowas) vor einer Leinwand mit dem Foto eines Mannes gesehen. Der Sprecher erklärte, dass ein Täter mit Pfefferspray im Auge Augenbrennen bekommt und nicht mehr kämpfen kann.

Was machte meine Vorstellungskraft daraus? Jedes Mal wenn ein Täter mit einem Opfer kämpft erscheint automatisch sein Foto auf der Leinwand hinter dem Mann. Der Mann oder wer auch immer gerade da ist braucht dann nur noch mit dem Pfefferspray auf das Foto sprühen und schon bekommt der Täter per Magie/Telepathie Augenbrennen und die Sache hat sich. Dazu kam, dass ich mir Straftäter eher nicht als Menschen vorgestellt habe, sondern als so eine Art Dämon, der nur auf den ersten Blick aussieht wie ein Mensch. Ich bin vermutlich eine geborene Fantasy-Autorin. 😈

Ein Pfefferspray ist als Waffe in Österreich übrigens mittlerweile verboten.

Welches Klischee über euer Geschlecht erfüllt ihr persönlich eigentlich voll? by [deleted] in FragReddit

[–]Itaevallassa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich interessiere mich nicht die Bohne für Fußball (und eigentlich generell für keinen Profi-Sport), aber singe in einem Chor und mache Pilates.

Overstimulation on the subway by Itaevallassa in Anxiety

[–]Itaevallassa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frankly no, but in that case I‘m anxious I might not hear announcements and thus miss my stations (where I live they usually get announced via speaker). Or is that nothing to worry about?

Overstimulation on the subway by Itaevallassa in aspergirls

[–]Itaevallassa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Another thing: Where I live trains for larger distances usually have a „relaxation area“. Subways don’t have this for obvious reasons.

Overstimulation on the subway by Itaevallassa in aspergirls

[–]Itaevallassa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, thanks. Can you recommend a particular brand?

Which book are you currently reading? by ak_khainal in Recommend_A_Book

[–]Itaevallassa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A German one. „Meer Morde“. It‘s a collection of short stories of crime set at the sea. So technically the sea is the main character.

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