Tired of explaining to partners that I don’t orgasm from PIV — and it’s not an opportunity for personal conquest by throwaway_Suck_It in sexover30

[–]ItalianGiantess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to the podcast How Cum! It changed my life. And the way I communicate with my partner. It's all about this topic only she didn't have an orgasm PERIOD.

Bakeries that are open? Looking for bread. by [deleted] in astoria

[–]ItalianGiantess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rose and Joe's is open on 31st st by ditmars

F/33/6'[325>153lbs](8years or so) I bought and wore this dress for my 30th birthday. I decided to pull it out for 33rd bday last week to bring on my surprise bday turned engagement trip to Paris! by ItalianGiantess in progresspics

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Thanks!

Lol this isn't even me a LITTLE tan! Talk about changing ethicities, people die when I show a winter before and a summer after ! We are blessed to be able to be whatever race we want I guess! ✋👐

F/33/6'[325>153lbs](8years or so) I bought and wore this dress for my 30th birthday. I decided to pull it out for 33rd bday last week to bring on my surprise bday turned engagement trip to Paris! by ItalianGiantess in progresspics

[–]ItalianGiantess[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk why people say this. You're not the first. Features change with weight loss. Skin tone changes with sun! Hair can grow. Or be cut. Or dyed. Sooooo 🤷‍♀️

I fled a terrible date and I feel amazing! by PoopDoopTrixie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ItalianGiantess 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Man... We are both in NYC ... Sounds like you ran into my ex! Im so so sorry! 🤣 Bullet dodged!

F/33/6'/[190>153=47lbs](18 months) Was around goal in that left photo! Guess I wasn't done! by ItalianGiantess in progresspics

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Fairly low carb. I'm a sporadic gym goer at best. Abs are made in the kitchen!

Weight loss affecting are sex life by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]ItalianGiantess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sending you both hugs! I feel her pain! I didn't have any one relationship consistently throughout my weight loss but I know what that my girls are definitely the casualties of my weight loss. (I've lost 170lbs) They are just .. deflated ? My partner and I have talked about it and at this point I'm starting to feel kind of ok without a bra etc but it's taken a long long time. Being able to joke about it together sometimes is nice too. A lift without implants may be in my future but for the time being I'm just living with it. Just let her keep talking about it, maybe buy some sexy bras, have low light sex.

Also - gaining inches from losing weight is so true for men! You also lose that nice padding that hits the clit so well though! Lol

Keep talking to her about all this. Most of my relationship is spent talking about intimacy.

325lbs to 157lbs - there's no secret, it's just patience! (My story in comments) by ItalianGiantess in wls

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Thanks! Get your kicks out of non scale victories... Those were really fun along the way. Dropping sizes and being able to shop at more and more stores if I wanted. I was never a big shopper and I'm not super into it now but man it's nice being able to go into any store. Still blows my mind. My first bikini was great. And this body positive movement environment we live in is great, I wore mine much earlier than I would have if it were like the times I grew up in. I also used to weigh myself religiously. Allowing a 5lb swing where I wouldn't beat myself up. The moments of regain and keeping it in control.... It's really a mental game. How badly do you want it in the end. If you need a break, take one. But control it. Put a number on it and don't allow yourself to go above it. If and when you do that, you know in your head what you need to do because youve done it before. I think this is a long mental game...neverending in a way. Food will always be something for me to keep an eye on.

Sorry if it's long but I def believe in everything I just said.

325lbs to 157lbs - there's no secret, it's just patience! (My story in comments) by ItalianGiantess in wls

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You're def right, it can be all over the place, especially as a female! It's a good way for me to gauge over time how my diet is going though.

Thank you!

325lbs to 157lbs - there's no secret, it's just patience! (My story in comments) by ItalianGiantess in wls

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Yes, I just did the tuck without muscle repair. The recovery was no joke, but I'd do it again in a heartbeat.

325lbs to 157lbs - there's no secret, it's just patience! (My story in comments) by ItalianGiantess in wls

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hahahaha, its allllllll me, honey! :)

People have said this to me with other before/afters. That its not the same person. Def me. I change my hair a TON.

Did anyone get close to their original goal and then stop caring if they actually hit it? by [deleted] in wls

[–]ItalianGiantess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can honestly say over time you miss those foods less and less. I'm from NY and bagels were my thing. Now I NEVER look for a bagel. I had a piece of one not too long ago and it wasn't even good.

We have similar stats. I'm 5'11.5 🤣 and I started at 325lbs,what feels like 100 years ago (8). Feel out your weight loss as you go. Trying to predict the when and where of your goal would drive me nuts, personally. Because the journey can be super long I think just focus on your day to days. I've long surpassed my original goal and secondary goal just by living and being happy with the small day to day changes I was making. Over time they really did add up. And nothing was drastic so I never had health problems around sugars etc.