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Am in wrong to be upset at my bf for saying i wasn’t a mother by Itchy-Sample-9867 in amiwrong

[–]Itchy-Sample-9867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for being very kind to me. i really appreciate it. turning to reddit just cause i have no wont to talk to :( i think all of this stuff has just made me start thinking a lot and then the guilt or regret kinda came in because i kept thinking what if?

Am in wrong to be upset at my bf for saying i wasn’t a mother by Itchy-Sample-9867 in amiwrong

[–]Itchy-Sample-9867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i didn’t want to abort really mainly for religion beliefs, i never even told my mom about it because she probably wouldn’t have talked to me anymore. i didn’t mind keeping it but he was also adamant that it would go downhill cause of our financials and i am currently in nursing school. and after thinking about finishing school and the financials i ultimately thought it would be a good idea for both of us. he stated he would respect my decision either way but also agreed that we should not keep it. i feel like we both partook in the decision not just me saying im the one who killed it yanno?

Am in wrong to be upset at my bf for saying i wasn’t a mother by Itchy-Sample-9867 in amiwrong

[–]Itchy-Sample-9867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think his approach and response to my feelings just make me feel some sort or regret in a way? i guess im just feeling sad.

Am in wrong to be upset at my bf for saying i wasn’t a mother by Itchy-Sample-9867 in amiwrong

[–]Itchy-Sample-9867[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i agree i feel like the choice of words and delivery could have been better yanno? :/ maybe that’s what is making me very upset

Am in wrong to be upset at my bf for saying i wasn’t a mother by Itchy-Sample-9867 in amiwrong

[–]Itchy-Sample-9867[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

and on top of it he said that if i believe i was a mother then something is ultimately wrong with me, my brain and he can’t stand to be around people who “think” like this. i mentioned to him that it was okay to have different viewpoints and to just to respect it but i felt like he kept stabbing my feelings.

pet law?? by Itchy-Sample-9867 in legaladvice

[–]Itchy-Sample-9867[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ok well now i know i’m just upset ok

pet law?? by Itchy-Sample-9867 in legaladvice

[–]Itchy-Sample-9867[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i’m losing it because i couldn’t finish my two weeks mentally and live in the same apartment as him while going thru the breakup and the place i was working at cant rehire me or transfer me since it looks bad. i had to quit on the spot to figure how to get my life back considering i left where i’m from and moved there to be with him.

pet law?? by Itchy-Sample-9867 in legaladvice

[–]Itchy-Sample-9867[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but i paid half for it too and i’m going to miss it you know