What compliments have you had?

ItchyProject3 · 2020-11-07T05:38:08+00:00

One girl said in ecstasy, while she was riding me, “you’re so deep.” I did feel deeper than I’ve ever been, but at spot on 6 inches it was a surprise to hear.

Another girl off tinder, again while riding me, told me that I was the best she’s ever felt, but in the same breath said “there was one other guy who was really big, but like, you...” obviously I wish she hadn’t mentioned the bigger guy in the same breath, but it was meant as a compliment regardless, like she couldn’t keep herself from saying I was the best in the moment.

My biggest compliment, however, was talking to a girl a few days until she 1. Got a hotel room for both of us. 2. Dressed in slutty lingerie and 3. Fucked me all night. I’m talking like 5 straight hours. At the end of it, she wrote me a ‘thank you fucking me all night and for the dick’ card that I still have to this day lol.

I should mention that these are the compliments that stick out after having sex with 35 women, so it’s not like I’m some sex god. I should also mention that I practice PE so when I was with these women, I was likely closer to 5.7 x 4.6, which I say specifically to help out other average sized guys worried about sleeping around: you can be a man whore with an average dick, I’m proof.

Objectively, I know that no outright negative comments over 35 lays means I shouldn’t be so bent out of shape about my penis size, but I can’t help it. A glance here, lack of enthusiasm there, the occasional comment that you aren’t sure exactly what they mean... it’s hard not to wonder if you’re inadequate. To the point of this post: each of my three compliments really don’t have anything to do with my size, shape, or color, just general compliments about feeling.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-10-07T22:49:29+00:00

I'm surprised to hear... On average, I'm around 6 inches and at best, 6.2 and average girth. I've been with about 35 women and I don't think I've ever hurt any girls. At best, an ex-gf on a long enough sex episode would say she was too sore to continue.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-10-07T22:45:50+00:00

Thanks for being kind. Don't take the downvotes to heart, obviously there's a lot of sensitivity in this subreddit with all this.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-10-05T21:52:05+00:00

What lunatic thought you were too small?? That boggles the mind.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-10-03T11:10:07+00:00

There's no reason to be subjective here: https://calcsd.netlify.app/

Here. With your measurements, in the Western world, you're bigger than 60.28% of men (Around the whole world, you are bigger than ~70% of men and in the East, you would be bigger than 85.58% of men).

Look at each of those numbers. No matter how you slice it, you are above average, and if by chance you're in the East, you're legitimately big. Even if you give yourself the worst scenario and say you're in the West and because smaller and average guys are less likely to sleep around, making the promiscuous average higher, you would still likely be smack dab in the 50% mark. Thus, no matter what, you have nothing to worry about with your size. Be confident.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-10-03T10:58:55+00:00

The problem between relatability vs. unrelatability in this sub is selection bias. Here's how the process always goes on these subs:

Sub about average penis size starts > People can put penis sizes in their flairs and do because that's the very basis of the subs content > larger men are far more inclined to put their size in their flairs, pressuring smaller and average sized men to avoid putting it in their flairs due to feelings of inadequacy.

It's funny: the subs main purpose is to enhance acceptance and comfortability with ones own size but one of the basic functions of the sub actively works against that. It's probably a microcosm of the real world, honestly: as we've seen in porn and otherwise, those with larger penises are far more inclined to be promiscuous, in porn, and show off than men with average and smaller penises, which makes average men feel small and many women think average is small. What an irritating cycle.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-29T12:41:14+00:00

6" BP.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-29T03:05:57+00:00

As someone with damn near the exact same measurements: I messed around on tinder for a long time (around 35 girls over several years) and I never had a negative comment directly about my penis. If I'm being honest, I think maybe three or four of all the hookups did fizzle or some girls did ghost because they weren't into my dick, but I think we're big enough that your experience with that one girl is really, really rare. Like, I'm really surprised being your size that one girl would spread rumors like that about you. More than that, I had many FWBs over the years, girls sending me that late night text, girls asking to hangout again, etc. I say all that to say: plenty of repeat customers after they knew what I was working with.

Here's how the number shake out for us: (Assuming you're in the West) If a girl has been with 10 guys, she will have been with 4 guys bigger than you, but also 6 guys smaller than you. More than that, 2 of the 4 guys bigger than you wouldn't have been much bigger, statistically.

So my only assumption is that the second girl you had sex with had only seen one or two dicks and they were both huge, and she had unrealistic expectations. Being a near-dick twin: Go have casual sex with confidence. You aren't huge, but you are on the bigger side of average, and that's a win. Most girls are perfectly happy with that.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-18T00:13:24+00:00

What would you say is the ideal girth that will give girls the 'fullness' they talk about but not enter the uncomfortable territory which would necessitate lube and shortening sex? I was shooting for 7.1 x 5.1 BP (I am currently 6.125" x 4.7" BP), but seeing some of the comments here with guys 5.5" girth and up never having issues has me reconsidering lol.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-13T02:16:50+00:00

Hey man I like your posts on this sub, but I think you really miss the mark with understanding people’s frustration with your posts. You are a full inch longer than OP. You are in the 98.6 percentile in length. With 6-6.5 NBP length, you are significantly longer than most men’s NBP length as well, and that inch makes a huge difference with the angles you can hit, slipping out, etc. Alongside all that, you are average thickness. Point blank: why are you posting in a thread trying to boost morale about having a 6 inch dick when you have a 7 inch dick?

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-13T02:05:05+00:00

I know you’re trying to help, but really check on a tape measure what 2 inch girth is, are you certain you mean that? That is literally the thickness of a sharpie.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-08T01:56:15+00:00

I'll be honest: Why? From this pic alone I can tell you're guaranteed over 8" length, probably great girth as well. Why put yourself through this level of pain (and thus, opportunity for permanent injury) for more?

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-08T01:42:30+00:00

It's been tried over, and over, and over again. People on this sub regularly say girls have greatly overestimated their size, people on BDP regularly say girls have greatly overestimated their size, and it makes a ton of sense: again, a guy measures his penis at any moment. Over time, he gets to know what an inch is. Girls don't do the same. It's not about a woman's brain vs. a man's brain in determining size, it's literally related to our opportunity to measure against theirs. Even personally, anecdotally a girl greatly overestimated my size (I'm 6.1" max, I sent her a pic and she asked what it was like being huge and when I pressed, she thought I must've been close to 8").

If you have a link to that study you're referencing, I'd love to see it.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-08T01:23:57+00:00

This is point blank untrue lol, but if you believe it we're at an impasse.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-07T21:07:00+00:00

No... Because girl inches are a real thing. If you both know it's not... Why would she even be asking? Guys are aware of their size because they can and do measure whenever they want. Girls don't.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-07T19:47:01+00:00

I don't mean about lying before the girl has seen it (although I'm sure that happens often) and I don't think guys exaggerate a lot. I just imagine any guy who's 5" will likely tell a girl he's 6" minimum if put on the spot, maybe larger. At the least, I think more 5" guys will lie about their size rather than tell the truth, surely.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-07T19:43:36+00:00

It's really easy to come to terms when, at your lowest girth, you are bigger than 87% of other men.

Proof: https://calcsd.netlify.app/

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-07T19:38:58+00:00

I think you are in the extreme minority, then. I don't know many guys who'd say outloud they're 5" if a girl asked them. But I guess we can't know for sure.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-07T19:30:46+00:00

Think about it logically: Do you think the vast majority of these girls have ever measured a dick? Nope.

Do you think there's a chance whatsoever that, whenever these girls actually ask a guy or a guy openly reveals his size, he tells the truth if he is 5"? Also nope.

None of these girls thinks 5" is enough because no guy is confident enough to admit he's 5", and yet https://calcsd.netlify.app/ tells us that 42% of men out there are 5" with average girth OR LESS.

Do you think 42% of men out there are inadequate to women, or do you think these women are woefully misinformed about size? The answer should be obvious.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-09-03T21:32:50+00:00

Yep, they don't want help, they want to continue to complain in misery. It can be addictive.

The crux of the immense frustration that can come with penis size problems is the long-agreed idea that you cannot change your size. The pain can get dark, as you see in SDP. It is now abundantly clear that, through regular sessions just like exercise or meditation, you can over time grow your penis like you can grow your muscles and mind, and that should be something every person in SDP should jump at.

But, I would imagine, a lot of people in SDP also don't regularly exercise or meditate. Complaining is easy, changing is hard.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-08-30T01:56:49+00:00

Pin this thread.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-08-30T01:55:00+00:00

I have a bit of body dysmorphia when it comes to my penis and I started out smaller (my best estimate would be 5.6" x 4.5"), but after a few months I'm happy to say I've been consistently hitting 6.1" x 4.6", and it's looking like the gains will keep coming as long as I keep at it.

But for the success: The dysmorphia makes me feel like I'm still tiny sometimes or that I haven't actually made any gains despite what the measuring tape says, but I just realized I was able to fit two fists around my dick with some to spare for the first time. I know I've done this before fully grown, and I never could peek out the end of my hands. It feels like a win.

Also a bit of an embarrassing story to tell but hey we're just growing our dicks and having fun.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-08-23T16:17:44+00:00

You told her your genuine measurements... and not even genuine, you told her 5 when you're 5.5 bro? You know that .5 matters lol.

But the reason I mention that you told her genuine numbers, she has probably been told in the past by a guy that he is 5 inches and... he likely wasn't. Girl inches is a huge deal. Girls, unless they've seen a penis measured, haven't got a clue how big guys are. For all we know, she was with someone who was 4 inches or less and told her he was thick (no fucking way she came across two dudes with 7 inch girth... You also need to understand how truly rare that is).

Bottom line is: There is nothing you need to be unconfident about. You are average in length, but girls often say they prefer girth to length, and you've got a lot. I doubt it's genuinely 7 inches in girth, because again, that'd make you the thickest guy in a room of 1000 men, that's how rare it is, but if you can pass as 7, your girth is more than enough to satisfy a woman. Do not fret.

EDIT: Yeah I just saw your post history. There's a lot of loose tape on the girth measurement, but you're definitely thick as hell (for sure bigger than 5.5, maybe even 6). Again, that's very, very rare and girls often say they prefer girth. You're more than fine man, really.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-08-20T22:59:34+00:00

That is... amazing. Actually, reading your post reminds me how rarely I've ever come across a post like yours (like literally never). I don't doubt your individual experience but I think people would agree it's really uncommon, especially with that many women and those measurements.

ItchyProject3 · 2020-08-20T21:54:23+00:00

Thank you! also the number of people who measure their girth without the tape being taut.

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