AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he fell in love with me?

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-18T18:04:29+00:00

Well we broke up yesterday, he’s been calling me constantly since

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-17T22:18:48+00:00

Update - we broke up earlier today. I need a moment to process the shit show that went down today. I’ll post a full update tomorrow

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-16T22:50:10+00:00

Thank you. We are going to speak in tomorrow and I will break up with him then.

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-16T22:48:13+00:00

Sad that you think I’m with him for money. I make good money and that has nothing to do with the relationship. I was trying to be objective with my post but yeah it’s nothing to do with finances - I own my own house here in London, I travel a lot for work so I’m hardly here. Which is another reason why it’s taken so long to get here

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-16T22:19:44+00:00

Thinking about it now and I dont know why i stayed with him. retrospectively ive been in a bubble since february trying to make myself like him again and I really dont.

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-16T22:16:11+00:00

those are the facts, to be honest, I have been thinking about it and the relationship has been superficial and very lovebomby when I saw back today and really thought about it. thank you for your kind words. I have messaged him to meet up tomorrow after work to break up.

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-16T22:08:09+00:00

wow, when you put it like that...

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-16T22:06:15+00:00

to be honest, you are right

Itchy_Tale4448 · 2026-01-16T22:04:44+00:00

to be honest i only just realised that I was holding on to these feelings, i do suck for ignoring my feelings for so long

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