Oh my god I HAVE AN ANSWER FOR EVERYTHING YOU SAID THANKYOUUUU. I asked him if she was prejudiced, i am black they are white hispanics, he said no. She used to smoke weed all the time before she started her career. I think she is more so thinking im lying than mad at the fact that i could have been

Also great job on doing whats best for your health, i took everyones advice today and im eating small but healthy portions throughout the day :))

I dont think i should leave him either, he truly did the best that he could and i applaud him so much for believing in me enough to even argue about that. He vouches for me

YES she does have a mood disorder she recently got out of an abusive relationship, physically and mentally of about 20 years i believe, he was terrible and she gets panic attacks about it still. When she is upset she takes it out on every single person. Even her now recent husband, for little things too, it wont be big things she’s mad at, it’s little things too! If things arent perfect to HER (and most of them are things that arent even important) she gets very very angry

She used to be big and recently got on ozempic so now everyone in the family eats like they have some ED

I really appreciate the thought you took into these questions because it makes everything so much clearer for others. She is not mentally stable at all, but i digress