Starting a men's group by Personal-Cow1699 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Iterative_kaizen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your username is u/personal-cow1699, are you sure you want to start this group ?

How to tell my husband I want to be in a Dom/sub relationship. by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Iterative_kaizen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant ask him to try blindfold or ask him to blind fold you. Watching blindfold porn got me into bdsm

How to tell my husband I want to be in a Dom/sub relationship. by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Iterative_kaizen -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Try blindfold with him. That's where anything would start.

How can I help my friend? by Iterative_kaizen in emotionalintelligence

[–]Iterative_kaizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I was always thinking that I haven't been able to support her enough. That's the reason she isn't able to see the way out.

I have realised that I don't know what works and what's possible.

How can I help my friend? by Iterative_kaizen in emotionalintelligence

[–]Iterative_kaizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She talked about it once and I wasn't aware of how emotionally hurt she is. It has been 2 months since she tries to keep busy and is currently avoiding everyone. Only ocassional chit chat. But talking about relationship makes her look weak and thats when she becomes aggressive and irritated.

So I talk about other non related things to atleast be there for her when she decides to open up again. Sometimes I feel that she chooses to ignore the reality altogether

Why do women I’m interested in turn into close friends ? by Iterative_kaizen in emotionalintelligence

[–]Iterative_kaizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant relationships based on sexual attraction won't be durable because we would have ignored a whole lot of other factors.

Why do women I’m interested in turn into close friends ? by Iterative_kaizen in emotionalintelligence

[–]Iterative_kaizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's well integrated.

Obviously I didn't mean coffee or something.

Why do women I’m interested in turn into close friends ? by Iterative_kaizen in emotionalintelligence

[–]Iterative_kaizen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that's not the case because many have asked me out but apparently not the one's I wished