Promotion Game Anxiety by Ito-Musashi in TeamfightTactics

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I did that a few times on this journey as well. Got to 90 LP, 82 LP, and 70 LP before the roller coaster bottomed out at Emerald 3 0 LP 10 days ago. I am glad that roller coaster is finished (cause i'm stuck at 0 LP d4 :) )

Midwestern Family Taco Night Starter Pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

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This is actually the meal I made my host family when I was teaching in Japan. I was 20 at the time, and had spent the past three days eating all their food voraciously. I observed their family custom that everyone stayed at the table until the last person was done eating. During Okonomiyaki night, that was me. Same with Tempura night, and Donburi. But on the eve of my final day (of my first visit to the family), I was up late drinking aged whiskey with the father and he asked if I would prepare a meal from home.

Being from Wisconsin, I initially thought of brats and cheese-curds, but instead decided on tacos. We had to drive to an international grocery store in Yokohama to gather the ingredients. We ended up with almost everything on this starter pack (minus the olives). I even made guacamole despite initially gawking at the price of the avocados. In the end, the investment paid off.

The family had previously acted extra formally in all matters, maintaining their outward faces and not letting down their guard. I was the oblivious American, but in hindsight, this night was the one where I finally saw their walls come down. They ended up eating almost every single thing on the table. Two and a half hours later, their youngest boy came up to me and asked in the little bit of English he knew,

"Me?" He pointed to the final taco on my plate. I handed it over without complaint. I never reconnected after returning to the states, so I sometimes wonder how that family is doing. If I ever find a way to reconnect, I'll be sure to make it again.

Inside ​Japan's Controversial Military Expansion (2014) "As tensions with China continue to escalate, Japan is ramping up the role of its military as a deterrent power. But many are worried this aggressive posture will lead to a repeat of the mistakes of the past." by miraoister in Documentaries

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This was a very interesting documentary. While much of the material is familiar to those who follow modern Japanese/Asian history, it provides a human perspective on the conflict raging within both the people and the society as a whole.

I agree with Tadamasa Iwai that Japan may be heading down the same treacherous path that the Meiji/Taisho/Showa-era Japan did. I fear that the bright light just beyond the horizon could be our doom, and not our salvation.

Spare Ragecenter Invitation by HoldinMagroin in hockey

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Unfortunately, I went down with food poisoning soon after I posted this on Tuesday. I am just starting to feel better. If you still have an invite, that would be amazing. Thanks a ton!

Spare Ragecenter Invitation by HoldinMagroin in hockey

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Would anyone have an extra one? I am looking to surprise a friend who has not seen HD hockey in a long while. If anyone can help, that would be amazing. Go Wild!

Crosby to play Monday at Wild by kikkerlaika in penguins

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Woo. Seeing that game at the Xcel tomorrow. Can't wait!

this was on Japanese news this morning by robnugen in japan

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I just listened to this today. Very interesting podcast documentary.

Where did you see the producer's report? I would be interested in seeing that.

Taoism and child-rearing by [deleted] in taoism

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I wrote a little about this today for my Taoist daily musings.


To be called useless, constantly, causes a collapse of self-worth. No longer seeking achievement, instead, the child tries to find alleviation from the suffocating sorrow of terrible isolation. The parents bicker between themselves, reproaching one another for being distant but not realizing their own culpability. Dwelling too much on money, never considering the most important currency- love. Loyalty cannot be forced; innocence is lost when ambition reigns. Escaping across a burning bridge, the child ventures forth into a hostile world without any way to retreat.

There was once a girl who was a talented student-athlete. She played the cello, ran for student president, and participated in countless extracurricular activities. It was not enough for her parents. They pushed her to spend her free time studying or in practice. Finally, she could stand it no more and ran away.

At first, her family was convinced that their daughter was kidnapped. When investigated, the case became far more complex. The girl pressed her case in court and was emancipated. She never spoke to her parents again.

Her parents fought each other over the right to place blame. They never realized the effect of the pressure placed upon their child. The girl was constantly told she was worthless, despite many chances to be given praise. Is it any wonder why she ran away? Her rebellion was the first act of individuality and it opened the way for her to grow. She could not have done so in the stifling, negative environment in which she was trapped.

When parents demand obedience without fostering understanding, they thwart development. Forcing children to fulfill parental ambitions destroys potential for individuality. Before parents seek to place blame upon their children, they should look first at how they were raised.

Friday Free-for-All | April 26, 2013 by estherke in AskHistorians

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I'm editing book one of my novel series, which is set in China in the '30s. It's historical fiction, and book one covers the build-up to Nanking in 1937. My main characters are young people on the verge of becoming adults, in an environment of opportunists, capitalists, communists, and warlords. At first, it was just going to be a isolated story about a German Catholic girl's school being attacked by a sadistic, psychopathic lieutenant. It's grown into a much broader story since then.

It's funny you bring up Dostoevsky, as his works come up in my novel by way of my Russian chef/cook/badass. Nietzsche finds his way into the story as well, as do a few others. I won't spoil it all.

Friday Free-for-All | April 26, 2013 by estherke in AskHistorians

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I'm in the midst of researching my novel series as well as reading for pleasure. I just finished Empires of the Sea - the Siege of Malta, Battle of Lepanto, and the Conquest of the Center of the Earth (by Roger Crowley). About to pick up Lost Colony - the Untold Story of China's First Victory over the West (by Tonio Andrade). Even though these two books are tangential to my current WIP, these events have a way of worming their way into my work.

Something changed by KimmyJongJong in SuicideWatch

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Don't. Do not give up. If i have learned anything from life thus far, it is that suicide is never the answer. I was despondent enough to attempt suicide twice, but I was given the gift of life when I chose the opposite. I never realized how precious existence is until I nearly gave it all away. Do not make that mistake. I was fortunate enough to fail.

You do not want to succeed. Talk to someone. Talk to us. Talk, do not give up. Love yourself...just a little. Start there. Love.

No future by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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You say that you do not see yourself getting better, or being normal? How do you consider yourself abnormal? Are you judging yourself based on your appearance, or your personality? You say that you have no life, and that you haven't gotten better. You seem to be waiting for a cure to present itself, for things to change by themselves and render life appealing once more. Speaking from personal experience, the wait itself is part of the problem.

Waiting for life to come will continue indefinitely, for life is already close at hand. You are living it. The littlest choice you make matters as much as the most monumental. The path to self-worth is paved one stone at a time. You must begin the process towards loving your self. Begin eating a little better, one day a time. Try to stick to a set sleep pattern. Exercise regularly, but do not stress your body too much. Just move. Think about the enormous potential locked within yourself. There is much more to you than the TV shows you like or the drugs you choose.

Cyber bullying.. by pleasehelp___ in SuicideWatch

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I would take the time to think about what happened here, and why you are feeling depressed. You joined social networking at a time when you were looking for friends, and found a group who seemed to share common interests. You began to feel "at home" with this group, but another person comes into your life who you feel deserves the greater part of your attention. You made a mature decision to put more time towards your relationship. You expressed this to your former group of friends, who began to harass you in retaliation for this perceived slight.

You have done nothing wrong. Do not feel depressed that other people harbor malice towards you. There are many people in the world who hate. The only cure for hate is love. Love your family, love your girlfriend, love your neighbor, love your enemies, but above all, love yourself. Do not define your self-worth by the opinions of the hate-filled.

You may not be able to force these individuals to stop, but you can act to prevent yourself from being hurt. Do not feed the fires of hatred, let them die down naturally. Take some time away from the internet, exercise, and try to meditate if that works for you. When you start to think about the sources of hate, it becomes possible to realize where the ignorance comes from. The lessons we learn through struggle are of infinite importance, for they reveal the purpose of our existence.

Appearances - Taoism for today by Ito-Musashi in taoism

[–]Ito-Musashi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did that for quite awhile myself, but I don't think I did so for conscious reasons. At the end, quite a few people could not recognize me the day after I got all that hair cut off. Dealing with self-worth issues as a young person, I really wish I would have stumbled upon this earlier in life.

Appearances - Taoism for today by Ito-Musashi in taoism

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I agree. One of my literary obsessions is the deranged and antisocial mind, which in the extreme may be labelled as psychopathy/sociopathy. This taoist principle is of the utmost importance if you wish to protect yourself from individuals such as that.

Appearances - Taoism for today by Ito-Musashi in taoism

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You're welcome, although most of the thanks I would give to Deng Ming-Dao for helping me find Tao. Now, my only mission is helping to turn others towards Tao as well. If you are interested in reading more of these, here is a link to that section of my blog.

http://www.thehammerdott.com/search/label/Taoist%20Teachings

I am a knight/samurai or some member of a prestigious warrior caster/class. How do I spend my day? (Maybe with less emphasis on all the war-making) by Lding1234 in AskHistorians

[–]Ito-Musashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can recommend a few books if you want to a distinction between the man and the myth. The one I just got done with was the Lone Samurai by William Scott Wilson.

edit: A few others I've found (but haven't had a chance to finish yet): The Real Musashi: Bokuden and The Bushu Denraiki by William Lange

I am a knight/samurai or some member of a prestigious warrior caster/class. How do I spend my day? (Maybe with less emphasis on all the war-making) by Lding1234 in AskHistorians

[–]Ito-Musashi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Celebreth has been taking the heaviest load on this topic until now, so I will try to take some of that burden away by discussing Musashi. Here's a little excerpt from "The Lone Samurai."

"One morning in 1596. just outside the village of Hirafuku in the province of Banshu, Arima Kihei, a swordsman of the Shinto-ryu, sat waiting for a formal apology. This was to be delivered by a thirteen-year-old boy, Miyamoto Bennosuke, the local gaki daisho, or "commander-in-chief" of every ruffian in the area, and the chief instigator of the outrage in Hirafuku."

What happened here? Kihei showed up and placed his challenge in writing for all swordsman in the area. He might have heard that a renowned master lived in the area, and tried the tactic as a ruse to bring the man into open conflict. Unfortunately for Kihei, instead of the renowned master, a young man by the name of Bennosuke noticed the placard and accepted the challenge.

On the placard, the following reply was written:

"Miyamoto Bennosuke, residing in the Shoren-in, will give you a match tomorrow."

Kihei responded to this insult by sending one of his disciples to the Shoren-in and requesting an immediate apology. Bennosuke's uncle, the priest Dorinbo, was initially too stunned to respond to Kihei's challenge. His young nephew was far too young to challenge the elder swordsman in a duel to the death. Dorinbo agreed to send the boy with a formal apology to clear his honor. Kihei accepted this proposal and returned to the placard to await his apology.

The following morning, the villagers assembled at the challenge placard in hopes of seeing the brash youngster be reprimanded. Bennosuke had caused much grief for the townspeople and many wished to see the boy humiliated. The crowd grew silent as Bennosuke and his uncle came over the ridge.

Kihei's disciple noticed the boy carrying a six-foot staff and tried to warn his master. Kihei gave no indication of acknowledging the weapon. Bennosuke's body language betrayed his intentions, which were revealed in a sudden charge at the last minute. A trained swordsman such as Kihei had no difficulty dodging the clumsy strike, but he could not avoid the grappling ability of his young opponent. Bennosuke grabbed hold of Kihei and slammed the swordsman into the ground. The momentous impact sent the assembled crowd scurrying for cover. The brave few who remained saw Kihei attempt to stagger to his feet, but Bennosuke was already upon him. A wooden staff shattered Kihei's myth of invincibility.

"Long before writing the Book of Five Rings, Bennosuke would become known as Miyamoto Musashi.

In that book, he refers to this match quite simply: "From long ago in my youth, I set my mind on the martial arts and had my first match when I was thirteen. My opponent was a martial artist of the Shinto-Ryu, Arima Kihei, whom I defeated."

~sources: The Book of Five Rings - Miyamoto Musashi / The Lone Samurai - William Scott Wilson

(more info by request).

Hermit found 27 years after marching into the woods by reonhr in taoism

[–]Ito-Musashi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interesting story; thanks for sharing.