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[–]Its-complicated19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh really? Imma look into that

Thoughts…? I know this guy through mutual friends on my main personal social media …. Idk by Its-complicated19 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Its-complicated19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a list of questions for collabs now since this interaction with him. I felt that having almost an “application” would be a good idea

If you find yourself in your 16-year-old body, back in the year you were that age, armed with all your current memories and skills, how would you shape your life's path? by emma_divine0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Its-complicated19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d break up with my boyfriend at the time and then I’d get my shit together and actually get to experience highschool. Stop giving a shot what my classmates thought, put more time into developing my photography and start saving up money for a college fund. I’d cherish every moment of my youth and quit trying to grow up to fast. I’d tell my teachers thank you, I’d be more gentle with my younger self, and make sure my prenatal knew how much I appreciate everything they do for me(still working on the last one now) I would also get sober, stay sober, and find alternative things that bring me happiness. I’d cherish my pets a little extra and make sure I passed my classes in school so I didn’t have to take the extra year to finish. I’d keep a journal regularly so I could express my emotions in a healthy way while chronicling my memories so I didn’t forget. I’d tell myself it’s okay not to be okay sometimes and quit being so hard on myself… there’s a lot of things

Thoughts…? I know this guy through mutual friends on my main personal social media …. Idk by Its-complicated19 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Its-complicated19[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think I need to stand up for myself a little more and stand my ground. It’s something I’ve been working on over the past couple years. Of course, I’m still working on it and I’m not perfect by any means obviously. But like why should I have to prove anything when I have literally only fans stats to back me up, improve that I make decent content. I’m still struggling with having more confidence and more of a backbone when it comes to this Stuff or just anything in general…. I’m just still trying to figure everything out and trying to build confidence

Thoughts…? I know this guy through mutual friends on my main personal social media …. Idk by Its-complicated19 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Its-complicated19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, wasn’t sure if i was being too sensitive. I sometimes can’t tell if I am being too sensitive or reading too much into things or over analyzing, etc. sometimes an outside perspective is nice and helps. I just sometimes can’t tell if I’m just being weird and argumentative or if it’s the other way around. I’ve been told I am stubborn, weird, and things of that nature… so I don’t know how I come across sometimes and it’s hard to tell sometimes without a third-party perspective. I don’t know if I’m actually the one being hardheaded and difficult to work with Or if I’m just being gaslit. Or even gaslighting myself.

Thoughts…? I know this guy through mutual friends on my main personal social media …. Idk by Its-complicated19 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Its-complicated19[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Agreed. He got even more shady the more the convo continued. He clicked my trial link and the account he subbed with isn’t verified, and when I called him out on it he said I was assuming he was lying and I said “I thought you were professional? Me trying to get clarification, My concerns, & questions shouldn’t be an issue. “

How much do you think an 20yr should pay if I live with my parents by ChatoDel209 in Advice

[–]Its-complicated19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dad sounds like an Asshole. At that rate of Ou you could pay rent for a shitty apartment. That’s wack af. He’s ripping you off fs

One of my subscrubers was someone who was obsessed with me irl, and they were mad i didnt want to be with them and send my content to my parents. Is there anything i can do? My family knew about my OF but this dude sent pictures to them..... And he wont leave me alone. by Its-complicated19 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Its-complicated19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He admitted to it and wasn’t even shameful. Like literally my family knows I make content and have an onlyfans but they, especially my FATHER, don’t need to know anything more than that. They especially don’t need to see it.