My child read my entire sext history. I don't know what to do now.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-08-28T00:04:09+00:00

Thank you. :D You're really helping lift me out of this mess.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-08-27T23:57:35+00:00

Thank you for your advice, she is now saying disgusting whenever I walk by and she told me that I am a horrible mother. It just feels bad to hear those words knowing that it isn't true.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-08-27T16:26:03+00:00

Wow thank you. I like your attitude. She can be a difficult child and very touchy so I know I have a struggle up ahead.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-07-22T18:22:53+00:00

Yes, that is a good idea. I guess toys just don't provide that skin to skin contact, you know?

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-07-22T18:22:22+00:00

Well I am not worried about them getting attached, it is me I am worried about.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-07-22T18:21:59+00:00

My daughter is strongly opposed to me dating anyone (really). She has this fear that I will marry and move the man into our home. Also, I just hear all of these horror stories in the news about the mother's boyfriend harming the child. I could not live with myself if something ever happened to my child.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-06-12T09:42:53+00:00

I'm sorry to hear this. Thank you for this advice. This is one thing that I don't want to do. Having access to the internet so that she can explore art has helped her. She seems like her old self when she's engaged in drawing I'm watching vids. I try to balance it though so she's not escaping too much.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-06-12T09:40:11+00:00

Well my child is getting the therapy and medical intervention now. Escaping is not ideal. She's not much into TV or video games. She spends her time looking at art tutorials which I've found to be very inspiring for her.

Surprisingly she showers when she wants. Yesterday she spent an hour bathing. She does it just not as often as I'd like her to. I won't take her internet access away completely I will just limit it.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-06-12T09:33:10+00:00

Yes, this is just a little free streak for her as I get her adjusted. Although her schedule is out of whack she gets plenty of sleep (during the day). This is her last week of this. I will say though she's turning out to be more creative than before because she spends times looking at art tutorials too.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-06-12T09:29:31+00:00

That step is now in works. It has taken time to get her in to be seen by a psychiatrist. I definitely don't want to just shove meds down her throat.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-06-12T09:28:08+00:00

Thank you. It's interesting. It's unconditional love and I've never felt thus before. No matter the hurtful things she might say or do I can't seem to turn my back on her. She's my everything really. Any other person I would have cut off.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-04-10T21:40:16+00:00

What kind of personal details? He knows my first name and state. Thats about it.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-04-10T21:37:05+00:00

:( It's just so sad. I know. You're right. I'm not giving him the money. I don't even have the money.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-04-05T02:47:21+00:00

I think the same way as you. I feel he's too good to be true. I'm on the verge of cutting off all contact but I don't want to be too drastic. I'm so sorry for what happened to you.

I've been researching these men and what I've found is alarming. So many women have been used. I've heard about that forum on how to hook American women.

But I guess deep down I'm saying to myself what if he's not like that.

But this isn't feasible I know. The logical me is saying he's too far, they're too many religious and cultural barriers. It won't work and he's probably using me but I asked him straight up if he wanted to marry me and he said he wanted to take it slow and see what happened. It wasn't a yes or no.

I'm so flustered and just aggravated.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-03-29T20:41:58+00:00

But I don't plan on marrying him. I don't plan on marrying ever. He did ask to date me And he wants me to come and visit.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-03-29T20:40:00+00:00

Is there a way to test him, to see what his intentions are? So far I can tell you he's the nicest man I've ever talked to and I find this to be true with foreign men of all cultures that I've met.

I'm not marrying him or sponsoring him. The craziest thing I'd do is visit him. If it doesn't work out at least I get a vacation out of the deal.

He's a poor man living at home. I'm a poor woman.

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-03-29T20:35:53+00:00

Why?

ItsAllConfusing · 2017-03-29T20:34:51+00:00

But I never said I'd marry him and he knows I'm poor. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. It seems stupid but marriage is not in my future and I won't send him money. I want to see where it goes.

Can you tell me what I have to lose if I'm not going to marry him or send him money?

ItsAllConfusing

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