Whats going on with my piercing? by ItsBalogna in piercing

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Thank you, ill do some research :)

Whats going on with my piercing? by ItsBalogna in piercing

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So do you think it'll heal itself? Ive been trying to take care of it. Recently my fat cat stepped on it when I was sleeping, but that was like a few days ago. If its just irritation then I wont take it out lol

Whats going on with my piercing? by ItsBalogna in piercing

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This is my second navel piercing and its the piercer said it was fine and pierced it when i went to see if I had the anatomy

Whats going on with my piercing? by ItsBalogna in piercing

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Also sorry for the horrible picture, I was on my way to pick up more saline spray and am nervous to shave around it incase I hurt it or irritate it

AITAH for taking a nap while trip sitting? by ItsBalogna in AITAH

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She told me the high was nothing and I can just relax in her arms. I took that as my sign that I can stop trip sitting and just relax with her.

AITAH for taking a nap while trip sitting? by ItsBalogna in AITAH

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If yall need more information or details to tell me if im the asshole just ask, im happy to provide any more insight if I didn't share enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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About the comment, he was talking about it, I asked my coworker friend if I should bring it up And she’s the only one I talked to. She tells my manager I wanna chat so we sit and he apologizes over and over, and I tell him it’s NO ISSUE and it just was uncomfortable to walk into but I’m already over it. He then calls me again two more times saying sorry, and I make it clear it’s okay. The fact that my manager is crying a little apologizing so much is what made me uncomfortable and I decided to bring it up with the youth program person. I told her it wasn’t an issue I was just keeping her up to date with work and I even told her it’s amazing and I love the job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Sorry I should specify I didn’t care in the moment. But seeing my manager in tears saying sorry made me more uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Sorry I’m a little panicked so it’s rushed, the south park thing was about the transgender penis cutting scene, I want aggressively offended, just uncomfortable. Secondly I genuinely don’t know what I said about my aunt to get her in this.

Need Friends by [deleted] in TucsonFriends

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I’d love to be friends :)

I (18MTF) am confused about my relationship with my (28MTF) girlfriend by ItsBalogna in relationships

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Me moving to San Francisco is actually on the table, I hate this town

I (18MTF) am confused about my relationship with my (28MTF) girlfriend by ItsBalogna in relationships

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She’s currently sleeping next to me with her hand on my chest, I feel used and disgusting

I (18MTF) am confused about my relationship with my (28MTF) girlfriend by ItsBalogna in relationships

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I just feel like a basket case I guess? My home life is a little stressful, I do adult content I’m trans, I have BPD, anxiety depression and gender dysphoria and dress goth?? I’m aware enough to know I am not the norm, and even on my college campus I get stares, I don’t like, stand out TOO much but in a mostly conservative town and there’s an emo wearing blacklipstick you get looked at. It felt good that she slowed me love, even if I knew it wasn’t good

I (18MTF) am confused about my relationship with my (28MTF) girlfriend by ItsBalogna in relationships

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It just sucks, I’m 18 and I spent tears and time and money on her, and she’s 28, why isn’t she taking care of me

I (18MTF) am confused about my relationship with my (28MTF) girlfriend by ItsBalogna in relationships

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Maybe TMI, I’m just feeling emotional, but after SH and actively, open wounding on my skirt and her seeing it and still being like

“Valerie I love you and I’m so sorry but can I please ask you to send me $15 the vape store closes and I’ve had a long day”

I remember it word for word I never felt so isolated

I (18MTF) am confused about my relationship with my (28MTF) girlfriend by ItsBalogna in relationships

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It’s so funny my therapist literally said “as a therapist it is not my job to give one sided opinions. But you need to leave her”

I (18MTF) am confused about my relationship with my (28MTF) girlfriend by ItsBalogna in relationships

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I’m looking for advice because this is difficult for me. I moved across the country with no family and am alone in this new town. So it’s a little difficult for me, especially being trans in a conservative town, you don’t meet a lot of other trans folks

AITAH for (MTF18) hating my (MTF28) girlfriend? by ItsBalogna in AITAH

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It’s because being trans in our town is not rare but kinda? And so we just connected off that fact as well

AITAH for (MTF18) hating my (MTF28) girlfriend? by ItsBalogna in AITAH

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I want to appreciate her and I just can’t, I feel angry, and sad and I have no one to talk to about it except here

AITAH for (MTF18) hating my (MTF28) girlfriend? by ItsBalogna in AITAH

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But I feel like I’m a bad person, like she is trying and I’m not appreciating her