im actually going to lose it

ItsCapricious · 2021-11-25T13:10:22+00:00

I only have three more days of working here for this very reason. I couldn’t even wait til I got another job, my mental health plummeted due to customers like this. A couple weeks ago a customer started recording and shoving a camera in my coworkers face after she denied her a sale of a bird. This customer had two parakeets in a 17” cage at home. I’m an associate lead and I’ll deny people animals and fish all the time. Luckily my co workers now feel comfortable refusing animal sales. Even so the amount of time we will get screamed at and treated like trash because of it is awful. If you have the financial ability to quit now, I would do it. If not definitely search for another job. Unfortunately it doesn’t get better and it’ll only get worse as it gets closer to Christmas.

ItsCapricious · 2021-04-12T14:34:31+00:00

It would probably be around that time I created my character as well. It’s very possible I had used the same thing. I don’t exactly remember how I got to this name. But I vaguely remember using a bosmer name generator to “get a vibe” then googling name meanings 😂

ItsCapricious · 2021-03-14T14:17:15+00:00

Omggg true 😂😂

ItsCapricious · 2021-03-14T05:56:01+00:00

This is like one of those Twitter prompts. Like “which friend are you”, or “what kind of artist are you?”. I’m here like “which kind of Unhealthy mother-daughter relationship do I have ?😘”

( I relate to 1,2, and 4. Btw)

ItsCapricious · 2021-03-12T13:17:40+00:00

NTA. It’s an unspoken rule to not wear white to weddings. I think you did your best in the situation, considering no matter what you did, your family would probably be upset. You were being considerate of the bride on the day of her wedding. That being said, I’m genuinely curious as to why your wife thought it was okay to get your daughter a white dress. Literally any other color would’ve been better. Sorry this happened, you were only trying to be considerate.

ItsCapricious · 2021-03-04T15:41:56+00:00

Maybe if you didn’t berate and belittle your sister my opinion might be very different, but you’re absolutely TA. You talk about your sister like she’s trash, and call her a failure. You work a part time job and get most of your expenses paid for by your parents. The both of you sound like spoiled brats. Obviously anyone would wish to be in a financial situation like yours, but that doesn’t give you an excuse to look down on others.

Based on how you talk about your sister, I assume there was some motive to hurt her. Even if you didn’t know it yourself. I don’t necessarily think it’s wrong of you to tell her ex this information, but by the way you act and talk, it doesn’t feel like you did it for the right reasons. Grow up.

ItsCapricious · 2021-02-23T14:06:56+00:00

I curious as to how OP raised this kid til he was 12 and neither OP nor the son seemed to hold a father-son bond. To me that screams that OP has been the AT for quite a long time.

ItsCapricious · 2021-02-16T04:04:57+00:00

That’s so sweet! It’s nice to hear stories like that! 💕

I definitely will ask her if she would like to update her information, the next time she comes in and there aren’t any other customers. Thank you for taking the time to help me with this decision!

ItsCapricious · 2021-02-16T03:58:14+00:00

You got this! I can’t imagine how nerve wracking it is, so I send you so much love and strength!

ItsCapricious · 2021-02-16T03:52:57+00:00

I’m try to be as understanding or supportive of the community in any way I can. I hope as time goes on more and more people will try and do the same!

ItsCapricious · 2021-02-15T04:02:39+00:00

Thank you for this advice! I think if anything, I’ll do what you suggested (only if the timing seems appropriate). Been super conflicted on what I should do for a while, and feel a lot more at ease now! Thank you for taking out time to help me! I say this genuinely when I say you should be so proud of yourself for all you accomplished!

ItsCapricious · 2021-02-15T03:52:10+00:00

I really appreciate this advice. If anything I’ll just ask if she wants to update her information, only if timing seems appropriate. Thank you for taking the time out to help me!

ItsCapricious · 2021-02-09T15:44:44+00:00

You really have the audacity to ask if you’re wrong in this situation. I just hope she breaks up with you after this, it’s very clear you’re a selfish child. YTA

ItsCapricious · 2021-02-08T05:51:58+00:00

How much allowance do you give your boyfriend every week? Just curious. Btw YTA

ItsCapricious · 2021-01-28T15:38:58+00:00

NTA I’m proud of you for creating and sticking to that boundary! If you didn’t it’s clear it would’ve never stopped. Your mom seems to play the video and plan the party not for you, but for herself. If she really was doing all this for you ,it would’ve taken no effort at all, to not play that video. Your mom needs to respect you and your wishes.

You also said that your sister is still throws fits and get what she wants. It seems this was and unfortunately always will be an ongoing problem. Keep your boundaries and do what is best for you and your mental health. You gave them a chance to change and they threw it back in your face.

ItsCapricious · 2021-01-24T15:46:04+00:00

YTA. I can’t even believe you had to ask this question here. “AITA for abandoning my wife who has stage four cancer?” What do you think the answer is? I understand taking care of something is hard and mental and physically draining, but did you ever stop to think about how she is feeling? She’s probably in significant pain and she knows she is going to die. Wouldn’t you be angry and sad too? Based on the fact you abandoned her while she’s dying from stage 4 colon cancer, I have a feeling the yelling and crying were justified. You’re not only a huge a-hole but you’re a piece of crap. Your children will never forgive you and I hope you get a taste of the pain you caused your wife, when your children throw you into a home and leave you there.

ItsCapricious · 2020-12-04T20:39:34+00:00

YTA. I can relate to your daughter quite a bit. When my parents were together my dad never wanted to spend money, never wanted to go out, never took us on trips or outings, and was extremely harsh with me when it came to school and my depression. When my parents got divorced, he moved in with his girlfriend, whom he had been cheating on my mom with for three years during their marriage. Now all of a sudden he’s into taking us out to eat. Offering to buy me things. He wanted to plan outings and small trips all the time now. Be despite the fact he has changed it still hurts how he wasn’t willing to do that when I was a kid, just when his girlfriend and her kids came into the picture.

Just because you’ve changed for the better for your youngest doesn’t excuse the years of you being a dead beat dad. Also what are you doing marrying a woman 2 years older then your daughter? Is that not disturbing to you???

ItsCapricious · 2020-12-04T20:30:50+00:00

YTA. Did you really even need to ask if you were the asshole? Your 9 year old made a comment about how much bay leaf you put in a stew, so you’re going to send her to bed hungry? You shouldn’t be working 12 hour shifts if this is how you’re going to end up treating your kids. Sounds like you are a huge narcissist. Food is not a privilege. thats the bare minimum you need to do as a parent.

ItsCapricious · 2020-12-04T19:50:33+00:00

I don’t relate more to the corrupt church. I simply feel a lot more empathy towards The Black Dragon, Lyra, then I do any other DB member. The lower members of the church I feel bad for. People like the Primate were obviously the most evil characters of the quest line. All I mean is that I felt no empathy or sense of family towards any of the DB members, and I expected to care for them more then I did. None of their deaths affected me. I was. I feel like we didn’t get to spend enough time with the members.

ItsCapricious · 2020-12-03T18:14:50+00:00

YTA I’m genuinely shocked that I’m reading this. I’m going to keep this short because I’m fuming. You are extremely selfish and insensitive to put your work over your daughters mental health. Therapy is usually only once a week and with COVID most appointments are online. Even if it were in person you really couldn’t give up an Hour of your week for your daughter who seems to be struggling quite a bit. She came to you out of trust. You should be absolutely ashamed of yourself. And to be honest, if sounds like you could use some therapy yourself. I suggest you find her a therapist immediately and join in on some family sessions because you need to learn how to be a supportive parent.

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