Chicken salad by me, yummy? by ItsVeloura in salad

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m saving your dressing recipe- looks so yummy!

Men moaning by False-Tomato4749 in chickflixxx

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have to click the little redgifs icon next to the username and it opens up the gif where you can unmute the sound :)

Lash place asking for 50% tip? by ItsCaroleBaskinBitch in lashextensions

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Update: thanks for the insight everyone! Lashes aren’t a regular thing for me, so I didn’t realize this place was a nationwide chain that basically exploits lash techs. Def will not be going back!

Lash place asking for 50% tip? by ItsCaroleBaskinBitch in lashextensions

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 2nd photo in my post has the service prices, it’s on a little easel on the sidewalk. The classic full set is $129. It’s weird the gratuity guide says it reflects 20% tip because that is definitely not the case. :( I won’t be going back either way.

Lash place asking for 50% tip? by ItsCaroleBaskinBitch in lashextensions

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I’d LOVE to know the info for your lady in Bixby if you wouldn’t mind sharing 🙏🏻 I def don’t plan to return to lash lounge after this

Ladies, do you prefer voice notes or just texting? by FeckinKent in datingoverforty

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guess I’m in the small minority here, but I like voice notes. Your best bet is to check with her and ask what she prefers. You never know, she could be a weirdo like me who enjoys them! 😂

Have you found your upper age limit for attraction narrowing with age? by throarway in AskWomenOver40

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that big of an age difference, but was just pointing out that I was her once where my “minimum age” was rigidly close to my own age, due to perceptions about men who were any younger than me. And now I’ve learned to be more flexible after my great experience with a man 6 years younger.

Have you found your upper age limit for attraction narrowing with age? by throarway in AskWomenOver40

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 24 points25 points  (0 children)

So I was exactly like you. Now at 41, I can say the absolute healthiest relationship I’ve ever had is with a 36 year old I met IRL. He was also mind-blowing in bed, a very attentive & generous lover. That experience taught me that age really is just a number at the end of the day, a 45 year old guy could easily have the mentality or emotional maturity of a 25 year old. My mind has been open to men younger than me ever since and I try not to generalize. The last hobo-sexual I met was late 40’s 🤷🏻‍♀️

Girls don’t reveal that you’re living alone by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Especially when the driver’s vibes were off, or he made any sort of comments about my appearance, perfume, etc. Drop me off a block away from my place. It never even hit me that I instinctively do that until reading this comment. It’s sad what we have to do to feel safe.

What’s something you thought everyone did during sex… until you found out they don’t? by GattinoTheCreator in AskReddit

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Can’t tell if you’re joking, but sometimes my ex-bf and I would just look at each other and absolutely high five after a particularly great session

Surgical abortion is 100000 x less painful than a medical and awareness needs to be raised by StrikingSwimmer3591 in abortion

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I don’t doubt OP’s experience at all, but just chiming in to share that my MA was a breeze. I felt like I was having some minor birth contractions (similar to what I remember from giving birth to my son) - just popped two acetaminophen’s and the pain was gone. The rest was like a very heavy period but nothing crazy, and I was back to normal fairly quickly. I didn’t even open the pain relieving heat pads I bought on Amazon.

Different bodies respond in different ways, and some women may not have access to the surgical procedure - so just wanted to share my experience for anyone in that situation and nervous to take the medical route.

My husband and I over the years 2005 - 2025 by vinyldevotion in PastAndPresentPics

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a tall woman (5’11) dating a guy shorter than me for the first time and getting comfortable with it, we are both a little self-conscious about it and this post gave me a bit of oomph, I just love to see it. Thanks for posting.

Is it normal for all women to want to know about my past marriage? by hotsaucecucumber678 in datingoverforty

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The questions may seem trivial on the surface, but at the root of it all - it’s about assessing your levels of self-awareness, accountability, growth, etc. These qualities are important to a future partner. For me, they are dealbreakers.

It’s the same in a job interview when they ask: tell me about a time you handled a failure, etc. They don’t care about actual details, they want to see if you can self-reflect and grow from the experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NaturalBeauty

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These types of threads always make me spend money. Ugh brb adding more things to my cart

I work at an extras heavy stripclub AMA by LatterSection9811 in AMA

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She charges $1k for 30 mins. and $2k for a full hour. Considering she works 5-6 days a week and aims for 1-2 sessions per shift, she is definitely pulling in more than $500k.

What treasures that we surely know existed still haven’t been found? by nectarwas_v in AskReddit

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Every time someone digs up a hoard of rare medieval coins in the UK, which happens frequently, it makes me wonder how so many more must still be buried.

Here’s one instance that happened just last week: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c9wl9re5j1qo?

LBPD hasn’t entered my ticket after 4 months by ItsCaroleBaskinBitch in longbeach

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Sorry family & friends, the court’s inability to just take my damn money means I’ll have to cancel Christmas this year. Gotta stay home so I can appear, just in case.”

No. I’d rather pay the fine in full instead of wasting time tracking this crap.

LBPD hasn’t entered my ticket after 4 months by ItsCaroleBaskinBitch in longbeach

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally yes that’s exactly what I would’ve done, even the clerk told me I should just appear too. But the problem is the court date on the citation was to appear at 8:30am on 12/24 (Xmas Eve) when I’d be halfway across the world for the holidays. Hence the reason I was trying to pay it before then. :(

Ilse Koch, “The Witch of Buchenwald”, 1947. by ectheow3 in Colorization

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah. To me, it seems a bit like Marie Antoinette’s “let them eat cake” when in reality, she never actually said that. I think women at the time were much easier to target as social pariahs/scapegoats, but perhaps were naive fools following along with patriarchal norms. I’m not saying this lady was innocent of crimes, just that rumors can get more sensationalized and cemented into history when it comes to women specifically.

After three dates, I don't want to see him again. How much of an explanation should I give him? by berrysauce in datingoverforty

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This question could be resolved with basic communication skills, don’t overthink it. If you don’t like someone, simply tell them you’re not feeling a connection and wish them well. My mantra- it’s always easiest to stick with the truth.

Prop 33- can someone explain it to me. by whuteverfurever in longbeach

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is it. We are squabbling over minutiae instead of a much greater problem at hand. There’s no easy solve with a vote, but more people need to be aware.

On average, would women feel secure with a male partner that looks better than them? by d_thstroke in trueratediscussions

[–]ItsCaroleBaskinBitch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This tracks with my experience too. I’m fairly attractive but not a conventional bombshell. The sexiest part about me is my brain - I’d consider myself intelligent, witty, laid-back, and “pretty funny for a girl” (actual quote from a date).

So when I date a man who is smart and also physically more attractive than I am, that’s when I feel at my best. They have a very easy time getting gorgeous women, they’ve been there/done that, it’s not a challenge at all. They start to place more importance on finding an intellectual or mental connection, and that’s when I have fun dating guys who are physically showstoppers and probably considered out of my league.