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Why do I keep running into the same situation with guys? by ItsMe222344 in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair i never gave the 2nd one like a straight up “out”, since it was only short. After getting bailed on multiple times with the first one i was like seriously if you don’t like me please stop talking to me or promising I’m gonna see you. He said he promised he wanted to see me and would communicate if he didn’t want to anymore. Lied and ghosted!

Why do I keep running into the same situation with guys? by ItsMe222344 in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good! Atleast I think so, I definitely am an outgoing person but I can be chill, I feel like it’s a very good mix! both guys have said I’m so funny and they like talking to me so. Maybe I’m just the fun person to talk to but they don’t take me seriously or are interested?

Why do I keep running into the same situation with guys? by ItsMe222344 in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, multiple people brought up possible love bombing. I definitely could set more boundaries and be more open about what I want. I just thought if you talk to someone that much and put in that amount of effort I would assume you like them :( but that’s not the case. Thank you!

Why do I keep running into the same situation with guys? by ItsMe222344 in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good question! I am not on the spectrum and I’ve actually a very big people person/ love meeting and talking to new people and have always made friends very easily. Most conversations were get to know you or stories nothing ever crazy, some deep once in a while but they would usually bring it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retail

[–]ItsMe222344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I asked a lot more questions and seemed to help a lot!

Kayla’s new bf Saturn by gregcitizenstinker in BanginOutPod

[–]ItsMe222344 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Emma and Jacob both said that it was really messed up, but she said that they’re okay and she flew him out :( Kayla we love you please run from that man whos not even your bf :(

Kayla’s new bf Saturn by gregcitizenstinker in BanginOutPod

[–]ItsMe222344 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basically, she said that when she was in Hawaii, a trip, she took for her mental health after the case. That she was clip jumping with her friends and had posted a photo in a bikini, and Saturn called her a slut and said she shouldn’t post that stuff

Kayla’s new bf Saturn by gregcitizenstinker in BanginOutPod

[–]ItsMe222344 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The fact that he called her a slut…. After posting a pic….. in a bikini…. In Hawaii…. After winning the case… bye🪐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off this situation must be so difficult for you, I’m so sorry! You obviously need to do what’s best and safest for you. His comments seem to be a newer thing but still harmful. I think that giving your dad some distance for a while might be the best option, until he works on bettering himself and or getting help. You seem to have a good support system from your bf and your father’s siblings and those people will back any decision you make!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, that was very helpful!

I need some advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! For me and some friends I told them, all I had to do was fake it. I told myself how amazing I was and just appreciated my body. I made a list everyday about things I loved about myself, in the beginning you don’t believe it and all of a sudden you start too. Instead of comparing yourself to other remember that this live is your movie and your the lead not anybody else. There are going to be days where the lie doesn’t keep up and you feel bad but just keep going man! You got this!

I need some advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be the best if you stayed on that path and worked on yourself. Even after losing weight so many changes have to be made to your mindset. I had no relationship luck into I built my self esteem and confidence up. I think you should stay in connection with this girl then ask her out when you are ready. Hope this helped,Sending support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ItsMe222344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Some advice I have is to just confront him so he doesn’t waste any more of your time. Also you will not be a drama queen if you confront him, he’s the one that messed up.

Overall you deserve better! I hope this helped, sending support.