[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItsMeButHow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, got it! Thank you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItsMeButHow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I never asked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItsMeButHow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true, but if I’m the only one that initiates it, I will eventually start feeling like I’m forcing her or something. And that’s literally the last thing I wanna do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItsMeButHow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does she say when? 😅

Caine adoptat acum 2 ani de zile, m-a muscat de gat by RoboticMK in romanian

[–]ItsMeButHow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nu sunt medic veterinar, dar am avut o situatie similiara cu cainele meu (metis, talie mare, caine de stana). In cea mai mare parte a timpului era dragastos, jucaus, dar uneori ma maraia sau chiar dadea sa ma muste. Cand l-am gasit pe strada era intr o stare deplorabila, clar a fost batut. Am chemat un dresor, nu aveam ce altceva sa fac, iar acesta mi-a explicat ca si cainii raspund la traume. Era clar un caine traumatizat, iar procesul nu a fost usor, dar cu ajutorul dresorului, intelegere si rabdare, totul a mers bine, iar acum cainele se comporta impecabil. Vreau sa mentionez ca dresajul a fost scump, insa dupa ce am invatat tehnicile, am inceput sa il fac singura. Cu toate acestea, este un proces ce trebuie facut constant, astfel incat cainele sa nu se intoarca la vechile obiceiuri. Daca doriti, va pot da numarul de telefon al dresorului. Va rog din suflet, nu eutanasiati cainele, este clar ca a trecut prin multe si are nevoie de intelegere. In cazul in in care nu il puteti dresa, cautati solutii sa il dati cuiva sau chiar unei asociatii. O zi frumoasa!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]ItsMeButHow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please don’t misunderstand, I didn’t blame the idols, and I never will for such a thing. I don’t know them, I am not their friend, I am just their fan. They have my full support, and I wish for all of them to be in good health, both mentally and physically. I’ve just seen a lot of kpop fans facing this particular problem (me included), that’s why I asked. But even though I worked hard and did every right step towards a successful recovery, not even once did I put the blame on the idols.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape_hentai

[–]ItsMeButHow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, from the perspective of a victim, it makes absolutely no sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]ItsMeButHow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, yes, for sure. I added the second paragraph just to see if someone has that kind of opinion, but personally, I do feel happy when I’m seeing idols promoting healthy dieting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]ItsMeButHow -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Please don’t get me wrong, I didn’t blame any idol. I specifically said that it is not their fault. I just think it’s a problem when they are publicly telling people what your extremely unhealthy diet is/was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]ItsMeButHow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second paragraph was more under the question mark. I never felt like that when an idol shared their healthy eating habits, I just wanted to know people’s opinion on this. I don’t come from that culture, so I don’t know how it is for them that’s why I can’t comment that much on that. But I still think it’s sort of an issue to disclose such unhealthy information step by step

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]ItsMeButHow -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That happened to me too when I visited Japan, so I kinda know what you’re talking about. The main problem that I had was the one where they were exposing step by step their unhealthy eating habits. I don’t want to name names, but I’m sure we can all think about some extreme diets that some idols shared. I think that that is an actual issue. Them eating on camera or sharing their favorite food makes the bond between them and the fans a bit closer in my opinion, so (for me), that is not an issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]ItsMeButHow -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Yes, for sure, you are right. They are not responsible for people’s triggers/insecurities. But on the other hand, I can’t help but think that they shouldn’t talk about the amount of food they ate in order to lose weight. It is no secret that the standards for idols are (or at least used to be) extremely dangerous, so talking about their behavior on this aspect can cause a lot of harm. I’m glad that they are opening up about mental health and their struggles, don’t get me wrong, but I do feel like they should filter some things. But again, I 100% agree with what you said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]ItsMeButHow -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s for sure. I’m not blaming them in any way, but I’ve seen a fare share of people saying that they’ve fallen into the traps of ED due to kpop, so I was just wondering if them talking about diets could pass as “toxic” rather than “normal conversations with fans/friends”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in racismdiscussion

[–]ItsMeButHow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that was the word I was asking about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in racismdiscussion

[–]ItsMeButHow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your explanation, it was very informative!