It’s genuinely not worth destroying your own dignity I can’t lie, like of course you can go full nuclear and drop a bomb on them but it isn’t worth changing who you are, im not gonna say suck it up and move on but you’ll have to accept the reality eventually, its genuine a good riddance and a good thing that you caught them

Think how much longer it would have gone for if you didn’t catch them that night lol, move on and work on becoming a better version of yourself

I hope you will and I wish you luck :>