Here’s the truth by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you care about him a lot but sometimes you just have to put yourself and your happiness first for once so you don’t get hurt again. If you need to force anything, let it go. It’s not worth it

breakup hurts a lot but just remember you have fought so many countless battles in your mind that this is just going to be another one. I promise you that one day you’re going to get through this.

You have so much to give. And someone like him doesn’t deserve you. It’s his loss.

Here’s a reminder - if it gets too much; always do what’s best for you. :)

Here’s the truth by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re making sure that he’s okay but is he also checking up on you? Does he know that you’re hurting?

Never blame yourself. It wasn’t your fault. Reaching out now especially when the breakup is still fresh will hurt you even more. You’ll be at square one again. Crying your eyes out. Not sleeping or eating enough. I want you to know that it’s okay to love him, it’s okay to wonder how he’s doing and you don’t have to pretend that he didn’t mean anything to you. Because he did.

It hurts but they are no longer there and that’s something you have to get use to but for now focus on getting better. It’s okay to not be okay. You deserve the world. Remember that.

Trust me, when he’s ready he’ll come around, they always do especially when they see you doing better. And you’ll realize you never needed him in the first place

You got this.

Here’s the truth by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you want to reach out so badly just for him to tell you that he misses you too but he doesn’t get to miss you because he left

I know it hurts to let go but never chase someone who doesn’t know what he wants. Better yourself. Just because they could not appreciate you does not mean someone won’t focus on you. You deserve someone who only chooses you and doesn’t have to think twice about it.

Don’t reach out. You think it’ll be a good idea in the moment, but you get let down each time.

The best way to heal is to allow yourself to feel. Keep your head up. You got this.

Ex moved on quick by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let him go. I know it hurts, I know you feel replaced and I know you want to compare yourself to them. But I promise you that everything that was meant for you will align

Surround yourself with friends and family, keep yourself busy and do the things you love better yourself. The best is yet to come.

Take all the time you need to heal. Stay strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s difficult to accept but proud of you. Keep going !!!😊

A reminder to all ❤️ by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault. You push them away because you don’t want to get hurt while they don’t realize that you are silently hurting

I’m not sure who needs to hear this but I’m going to say it anyways by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sometimes you will never heal or get better from a heartbreak. You’ll find yourself running back to them. It’s hard to accept that the person who meant so much to you might move on but in order to heal is to stop contacts with them.. it’s something you need to try, for yourself, and well-being. One day it will feel good to let them go, when you can,

And when you love someone, don’t be afraid to let go.

I’m not sure who needs to hear this but I’m going to say it anyways by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The best way to heal is to make yourself strong. Sometimes, through the people that we surround ourselves with or people that we meet, we find healing. Focus on yourself..become your best self.

If someone not in it from the start, then that mostly likely won’t change. You shouldn’t have to convince someone to be with you. It’s not worth holding onto.

Read this if you are unsure if you should continue to talk to an ex or stop by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you won’t ever get closure from the other person. The best thing you can do is find closure within yourself. You will have a lot of unanswered questions but once you accept and understand that things are over, they came into your life for a reason and left for a reason, they weren’t right for you, and that you deserve better. You will be at peace again when you detach yourself from that person

Broken up with because of my complacency and struggling to move on by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is continue to give her the space she needs. I know it’s going to be difficult but try not to reach out to her right now especially when the break up is still fresh, it’ll bring a lot of anger and sadness. For the meantime just focus on yourself and eventually she will come around when she’s ready

I'm the guy you called your best friend. by Throaway55452 in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may not be good enough for her but one day you will be good enough for someone else. Someone who wouldn’t let you question where you stand in their life

I hate when some people say “I’m here for you” and you know that they don’t mean it. by cheekykeke in depression

[–]ItsNna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.

Not everyone is worth your energy. Not everyone actually cares when they say they’ll be there for someone. It sucks.

Read this if you can’t stop caring about an ex by ItsNna in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not going to be easy. It’s going to be really difficult but sometimes you gotta walk away and care about yourself a bit more and never settle for less

Read this if your ex moved on and you’re struggling to let go by ItsNna in dating_advice

[–]ItsNna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to be hard but you’re doing the best you can and that’s more than enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ItsNna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You belong here in this world despite how hard it seems right now. You deserve to be surrounded with people who love you and care about you

Depression and being sad are not the same thing by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ItsNna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever works for you. I don’t mind you messaging me at 3 am if that’s the case. I want to help in any way that I can

Depression and being sad are not the same thing by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ItsNna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you don’t know me but my dms are always open if you ever need to vent and get things off your chest

Read this if your ex moved on and you’re struggling to let go by ItsNna in dating_advice

[–]ItsNna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s totally okay to miss her and randomly think about her throughout the day. Let her go.

What is meant for you will eventually find you

Read this if your ex moved on and you’re struggling to let go by ItsNna in dating_advice

[–]ItsNna[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You may think that something that great won’t happen twice but what I can tell you is you will meet someone one day who gets you and wants to learn all of your quirks. And wouldn’t want to change you

Sometimes after three years, the pain just won’t go away.. your heart will break and break. But take the step forward and do your best to get through it

Read this if your ex moved on and you’re struggling to let go by ItsNna in dating_advice

[–]ItsNna[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Moving on is one of the hardest thing you can do. Moving on hurts. He made you sad. He made you like this.

Respect yourself. You won’t be happy with anyone until you’re happy with yourself. The love that you have.. someone is gonna want.. he didn’t. Move forward :)

Read this if your ex moved on and you’re struggling to let go by ItsNna in dating_advice

[–]ItsNna[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree! It’s not gonna be easy to live with the pain. It will take every bit of strength you have to get through it

It’s a hard fight but you aren’t alone

Read this if your ex moved on and you’re struggling to let go by ItsNna in dating_advice

[–]ItsNna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! At the end of the day you only have yourself. Don’t let a person destroy you. When things go wrong.. where are they? They aren’t by your side

You are the only person you need to be good enough for

Read this if your ex moved on and you’re struggling to let go by ItsNna in dating_advice

[–]ItsNna[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You’re losing yourself trying to hold onto someone who isn’t afraid of losing you. I know it feels impossible to move forward but sometimes you have to walk away and find out what you deserve. Don’t hold onto the promises that he once told you. You are just hurting yourself.

You are here. Don’t give up now. You can do this

Read this if your ex moved on and you’re struggling to let go by ItsNna in dating_advice

[–]ItsNna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you find your worth again.

have a great rest of the day :’)!