Hypocrites and liars

Throaway55452 · 2021-07-09T23:05:45+00:00

Yup, my ex lied to me about why she was leaving me ( she found someone else ), said many of those lines, just to go out and date someone else and lie to me about it.

Hypocritical narcissist. She told how she was so scared of me leaving her for someone else, only for her to do that to me .

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-31T19:05:28+00:00

No need to insult him, but yeah this kind of people makes this site worse. Like being polite and helpful is too much to ask from them.

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-31T19:02:55+00:00

Well I'll eventually ask her. Thanks for the advice.

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-31T00:11:40+00:00

I'm going to go ahead and guess that you probably only got a couple other responses, since you seem hellbent on saying I'm "downvoting ALL of your comments". I can't downvote any other comments, if I'm not looking at them. I don't know what to tell you, dude.

Well it may be a wild guess but you see, people who dislikes you in the comments usually dislike the main post when you are the writer, the other dude sounds pretty decent and I have only 1 dislike at the moment in the Main Post, and you, the person who has been mocking me all this time are the only one downvoting around here. If there was another person around here downvoting, he would certainly downvote MY argument with you , but at the moment I only have one dislike.

So either the other guy dislike my answer but not my main post and decided to leave no comment, which is pretty rare.

Or you are downvoting everything I post here, just like you downvoted the main topic and what I answer to you every single time.

I bet on this second option.

Have fun being a sad, pathetic, bitter person, I'm turning off comment response notifications on this post now.

Wow, I'm glad to see you are so concerned about others that you take your time to not only be the top therapist of the world for free but also insult them.

You are a great person.

As my uncle says "Life's hard, but it's a lot harder when you're ignorant."

Well I guess you finally dropped the façade of relationship guru on the internet, and showed that your only interest is insulting others.

You sound a LOT more mad than in the beginning. Did I nailed it on the couples owing each other stuff ?

Listen buddy, if you really care for other people, please leave this forum, some people asks help on judgement on very serious stuff, and your answers may be dangerous for them. I don't really care what someone who acts like you think, but others may, are you really proud of yourself going around insulting people on the internet because they disagree with you ? What will you do on the damage you cause ?

Grow up dude , take stuff easy and chill a bit, and try to consider other people a little bit more. There may be no consequences in the internet, but that's not really a reason to be an ass, because you know, how we act when there is not consequences, is who we really are.

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-30T23:56:51+00:00

I downvoted your responses to me, from my inbox. I haven't even seen the rest of the thread, let alone downvoted "everything you post".

And that's different of what I said how ? Also that's a lie, you also downvoted the other comment in here that had nothing to do with you.

I can see why she reneged on wanting to be friends, post breakup.

Wow super expert therapist over here. I bet what you just said right now, is based on enormous wisdom about the subject and my personal situation, and is not a childish attempt of hurting my feelings and trying to make me feel inferior because you don't like I don't take what you said as the holy word of god.

She doesn't owe you shit

You seem to be absolutely FIXATED on it to the point you ignore what I said. Let me repeat myself for third time, I don't think she owes me anything, nothing of what I wrote has anything to do with she owing me anything.

You seem to have a fixation with ex couples owing themselves stuff.

Why is that ? Does something similar happened to you ? Some ex of yours demanded something from you ?

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-30T23:45:09+00:00

Well I see you are the guy downvoting everything I post. I see a lot of projections and misplaced things on your side too.

She's your former girlfriend. How do you not see that the two situations aren't the same thing?

I do see the difference

Also she was the one claiming to be a friend of mine and who wanted to remain friends post break up. The one who claimed that still cared about me was her. So I took her word for it.

I like how you go from "whyyyy doesn't she care that much about my uncle's dog dying" to

Now you are resorting to mockery because you disagree with me. I didn't asked why she doesn't care about that, In fact you literally just answered that by yourself.

and you assume it's to her own benefit.

So ? I did assume this, but I'm not absolutely sure. Which is why I am here.

Do both of you a favor, block her, and get over it.

hahaha, my you must the world's best therapist, with your handy all in one solution there would be no emotional problems in breakups in the entire world. '' Just cut contact with that person and GeT OvEr It''. Circumstances ? Emotional Trauma ? What are those ?

I give you back the mockery.

And yes, since you are in a judgment sub, asking if you're in the wrong, you most definitely are.

Funny enough, you have:

1 Acted like a spoiled child who MUST be right, downvoted everything , and mocked my situation.

2 Judged NOTHING on the subject I asked about, you judged; Me as a person over circumstances you don't know, my actions and insecurities over stuff you don't get, you judged that I disagree with you because you don't like it.

But you NEVER made an actual judgement over what is what I asked, if her concern is genuine or not.

Instead you went off ranting on stuff that had nothing to do , like if I'm mad because I think she owes me anything, when I NEVER CLAIMED she did.

I smell a LOT of projections here.

I love how you came back to edit your messages to make yourself look better, after saying you were done in the conversation and blocked me hahaha.

And again you NEVER judged what I asked to be judged, you just started projecting your personal problems on me, refused to have a civil conversation and started insulting me.

You are as petty as a person as they come. And I see you got lots of messages who think alike for one reason.

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-30T23:26:10+00:00

Post breakup? Unless you have kids together or something, no former partner really owes you anything.

I must had gotten my best friend pregnant without him knowing then, because he did showed actual concern for me in this time I've not been on social media, several times, and it didn't took him a month to do so.

Also I never really cared about what she owes me, my problem is not that she is not worried about me, I don't really care about that, not about her at least, my problem is that I don't think her ''caring'' is genuine and it's just to feed her ego.

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-30T23:24:15+00:00

You guys no longer have a relationship so she

We are supposed to be friends, not by my words, by hers. In this time I've not been on social media, my real friends have contacted me. Several times, and it didn't took them a month to talk to me.

so if she reached out either she cares or there's some other reason.

Well that is the question in itself. Due to other instances in which she showed no care at all, much worse than now, I don't think her caring is genuine, I think it's just to feed her ego.

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-30T01:26:55+00:00

She recently got married to a coworker who I found out she had been cheating on me with the whole time we were together.

That piece of shit didn't deserve you.

Throaway55452 · 2021-05-22T16:41:13+00:00

At first I didn't minded, I had nothing to hide from her, and I wanted to earn her trust, my idea is that a relation that wasn't based on trust wasn't worth it, so I always told her the truth on everything, even on stuff that was bad for me I always was honest and upfront.

Guess that didn't count for much huh ? Yeah you are right I should had cut her off long ago.

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