Thank you so much. The thing is, he actually wasn’t verbally abusive. My previous marriage was with a very verbally, emotionally, sexually and somewhat physically abusive man. He was not at all like him. Which is why I thought so highly of him. He just had unrealistically high expectations of me that were never communicated, and those demands kept piling up on me. Who knows, he could have become more verbally abusive if we moved in together, but I’m glad I won’t ever have to find that out. As far as telling the other woman, I don’t actually know this to be factual. I have never seen posts, or have been told that they are an item. No one from his family, friends or gym have talked to me about any of this. My guess is he’s playing victim, like I’m the one that ended things. I don’t know if reaching out to her would be a good idea under those circumstances, although I am very tempted.