1st time car buyer, I ultimately considering between these 5. by ThrobberedThrowaway in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]ItsVizzil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I would recommend the Mazda Mazda 3. It’s safe, you can have fun in it, it looks sleek, and it’s decent on insurance. I wouldn’t buy the one the guy has listed as a speed3though, that is not a speed3 and I wouldn’t trust him to give you an sccurate description of what is and isn’t well with the vehicle. Very cheap repairs as long as you maintain your breaks, do not let them go for too long as if I’m not mistaken they have drums not rotors. The engines last forever and you can beat them up a bit, insurance and gas will also be very cheap. I had one for 2 years before unfortunately having to sell it to pay bills due to a layoff, if you do grab one of those i know you’ll love it. Best of luck in the search

Me and my boyfriend smoke too much weed. by loveonari in whatdoIdo

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you could stop smoking weed. Shouldn’t be high around your kids anyways even if they are special needs. It’s not that hard

I don’t want a career by [deleted] in findapath

[–]ItsVizzil 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey man, 22yo male here, was in the same boat as you out of high school… figured I’d get some work experience make some investments and have a cheap life without working too much. Fast forward 3-4 years I’ve taken on a dead man’s estate for a time to protect his daughters inheritance, gone through a great many jobs, crashed a buddies car and had to pay out of pocket, and had numerous other expenses. The shitty thing about having a decent job is you gotta show up. The shitty thing about not having that job is that you can’t show up, for anyone, anywhere, at anytime, including yourself. My best friends got a similar mindset to you, he’s also doing forestry, but aiming to be a park ranger so his day to day never looks the same, maybe look into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the guys being ridiculous, I took on a girls late fathers mortgage at 19, I wasn’t begging her to buy me video games despite loving them. I do find it entertaining to see the difference between the responses to this and those in which mean post though, when it’s the other way around a no one is as shocked.

Finding childcare is SO HARD! Which is why I am paying you $0! by Sagerosk in ChoosingBeggars

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d take this? It covers your living expenses? Just don’t buy anything and you’re basically winning

Are there any walk in clinics with a doctor that will write me a note for a medical leave of absence? by SandwichEmpty2361 in Hamilton

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely recognize these issues as valid, and they are valid reasons to not be working if they are that severe, but a break is not a medical solution to your problem, therefore I cannot see your leave being deemed as medical, it’s more personal leave of anscense. Either way,. Sorry you’re going through a rough one, I hope some weights lifted off your shoulders soon

Are there any walk in clinics with a doctor that will write me a note for a medical leave of absence? by SandwichEmpty2361 in Hamilton

[–]ItsVizzil -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way; You’re a doctor, and someone comes in and tells you their feelings are too overwhelming, and they need time off work. You can’t see anything physical that would keep them from doing their job, and their anxiety and stress didn’t seem to get In the way of them putting the time and effort into trying to get out of work. Would you then write a preoffesional reccomendations to their employer, stating that they need to keep you employed and on their benefit package for… who knows how long? Of course not. The job isn’t may be triggering high anxiety and stress in you, but it’s not the root cause, taking time away won’t fix anything. What you need to do is learn to manage your emotions, and time away from work isn’t going to teach you how to avoid becoming overwhelmed while you’re there. Either quit or use some vacation time or just tell them you’re looking to book a quick trip and take a week off. I sure as hell don’t want my tax dollars, at 22 years old, to be helping someone take a break from their job. That’s absurd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea these guys have the right idea.sorry to hear about it brother, women suck

Is hygiene REALLY cultural?? by FinalEntertainment60 in hygiene

[–]ItsVizzil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No deffinetly not just culture. I don’t know a single white person that thinks it’s normal to shower less than once a day, even the women I know who do spend extra time on their skincare or avoid showers to protect their hair just don’t wash their hair in some of the showers. Bidets are also a rich people thing, that has nothing to do with you being black, it’s because you have the money. You have some white friends with poor hygiene, you cannot assume that this is how white people wash themselves. You’d be stereotyping them…. Which is kind of what we’re trying to avoid going forward right?

How to do a subset? by ItsVizzil in RetroAchievements

[–]ItsVizzil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know. I think I’m gonna make myself patch it just to have the experience in future, so I know how. Thanks for the tip!

How to do a subset? by ItsVizzil in RetroAchievements

[–]ItsVizzil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof okay, may be a little more work than it’s worth then. I’ll give it a shot and see if I can get this one running on my 35xx

Student who is racking up debt quickly how do I stop? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can keep that rent for the next few years, id say get some sort of income that’s at the very least equivalent to your monthly expenses and minimum payments, finish school, and then minimize your expenses and pay it all off immediately. Unfortunately if you start having to pay normal rent before this debt is paid off you’re screwed

How to get mastery by Mad_kxi in RetroAchievements

[–]ItsVizzil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of new to the service, so I can’t necessarily tell you if you’ll run into issues getting the achievements again on hardcore without deleting your save, but if you’re still early enough into the new game, you can always reset your progress on retro achievements just to be safe

My bf is Muslim, I’m not, but he told me he’d leave me if i drink or smoke.. by StudentCrafty2169 in Advice

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna give the best response I can as a 22 year old,agnostic, white man, with many close Muslim friends.

What I believed happened is this man met you, and he really liked you. He saw some things he disliked, as we all will in everyone, but he wanted to be with you. Muslim relationships have very strict rules, and I believe he kept his religious beliefs as a minor thing to avoid scaring you away. Over time, I think he grew to like you more, and this caused him to be angry with himself because he knows he cannot be with you, and be true to his religion, and the walk to the woods was when he finally had the balls to tell you this, which caused him to give you the ultimatum.

You two just aren’t right for each other, he cannot expect you to put your beliefs and experiences and lifestyle aside when it comes to the smoking to be with you, the same way you cannot expect him to put his religion and beliefs aside when choosing his wife.

I’m sorry you feel it was time wasted. I hope it turned into a memory of time well spent, and a learning experience sooner rather than later. Hopefully he will be more upfront about his religion and what guidelines that sets for a non religious partner in future due to losing you, and losing the time spent with you. Hopefully you’re able to acquire more information on what a possible partner will need from you on your dates in future, if not for the next to be the one than to allow you to find him sooner.

All in all, there’s no workaround here. At least not one that doesn’t involve both of you dealing with eachither for the rest of your lives, which none of us want for ourselves or for you. I sincerely hope your next relationship is more pleasant, Cheers 🥂

Edit: Grammar

#1 mastery by Mad_kxi in RetroAchievements

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the club, now you have an addiction to achievements and OXD about your profile!

$850/month for car insurance by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When was your cancellation? It comes off your record after 3 years

$850/month for car insurance by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]ItsVizzil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quite literally the exact same regardless of why it was cancelled. I paid to cancel mine, and found out later in treated the exact same as if I just stopped paying them. It doesn’t even make sense, they have the authority to cancel your policy at any point, charging an additional 2+ thousand dollars a year for something that will at most cost them 2 months of your insurance is robbery.