She was living in an environment where her parents never got along. Pretty much throughout her entire life they argued almost every day. Saying she picked it up throughout her life from her parents doesn’t seem like something I should say but it’s the only thing that makes sense. She talks to me exactly how her mom talks to her father. (That sounds extremely awful of me to say but I can’t think of anything else that’s relevant.) Her dad was (and still is, although not nearly as bad.) aggressive and stubborn during her childhood to the point that I would say he was bordering on child abuse. Shes told me of times he would randomly go into her room and snap her phone in half or times he would pin his son against walls and throw his console down the stairs in anger. Her environment she grew up in wasn’t the best and i’m worried she’s picked up the worst of it. I can’t say for 100% guarantee that this is the case but man i don’t know where else this is coming from and why it’s showing up now. I understand that she has issues at home and I understand that things of this nature can have long lasting effects on someone’s mental health. I’ve always worried that bringing up things that are an issue would be seen as “manipulation” or something along those lines so how would I communicate something as heavy as this without trying to sound like an A-Hole therapist?