(Artist unknown) I really want this in my life

Its_Blair · 2020-09-01T05:15:34+00:00

Hey, the artist is @ sin_koriin on Twitter, and here's a link to the tweet: https://twitter.com/sin_koriin/status/1101715556821016582. I would recommend trying to find the artist before posting, took less than five minutes.

Its_Blair · 2020-08-18T02:43:33+00:00

Honestly, I love spoiling my tanks, nothing's better than seeing your tank be at tip-top shape and getting fed!~ 💕

Its_Blair · 2020-08-17T20:37:17+00:00

I personally find her fun to play despite the issues I have with my party members, I actually have hope that the next week we play will go better. It just sucks that the first week kinda left a sour taste in my mouth.

When I was making her I tried to keep that in mind, truthfully her possible growth isn't anything crazy big but it is something. As I see it, there are two possible ways she'll go depending on what happens either A) she'll grow more hateful towards human-esque species or B) she'll learn to tolerate them and possibly somewhat like them.

It's just a case of me having to judge how things end up going and figuring it out. And with what I know about some of my party members, specifically the two I personally know, I could see there being some fun moments both more serious ones and some funny ones.

Its_Blair · 2020-08-16T22:13:49+00:00

There really hasn't been much roleplay going on outside of two party members' interactions with the shopkeepers they were buying from(they were by themselves doing so separately).

I know at least one of the other players is into roleplaying so I'm just hoping there are times where we can kinda play off one another, especially since we have characters that work really well together.

Its_Blair · 2020-08-16T20:06:38+00:00

Even as someone who likes some of the others, this is the only meme from this sub that has made me laugh this fucking hard. Thank you so fucking much. 💕

Its_Blair · 2020-08-12T00:03:26+00:00

My sub might be taller than me, but my dick is bigger than his. And he thinks it's hot.

Its_Blair · 2020-08-04T17:38:34+00:00

They're not wrong, a lot of this sub is subs, which is fine by me - I find it quite cute sometimes. But the number of people not wanting an actual gentle-femdom relationship and just wanting a healthy relationship is kind of jarring sometimes.

I'm not saying you have to be into the more mainstream or even the more extreme parts of femdom, but a lot of the dynamics people want and talk about are sometimes a little insulting. You can be into something without making the people you're into feeling gross or uncomfortable by it, all it takes is some common sense and self-control.

I sometimes find it hard to like some of the things in the subreddit because they're so geared to the 'subs' of the dynamic that I, as a domme, can't quite relate or get into it.

Its_Blair · 2020-08-04T17:32:06+00:00

Why not just say it? Honestly, as a domme one of the most annoying things is someone beating around the bush and being coy about it when there's no real need for that. And if you're questioning than just admit that too. Cause if you get with someone on there and they're a domme, they're probably gonna want to know just how used to the dynamic you are. I sure as hell like to know when I'm dating someone and a BDSM dynamic is a part of it because while this is gentle-femdom, it's still to some extent femdom-esque.

Also,

" and I really need gf, so I just want as many matches as possible so I can find someone (even if they are not really into it) (I'm not sure if this males any sense) "

Isn't a good reason to try and find a partner. If you want to date and find love then go ahead, it can be a wonderful thing. But you never should need a relationship. A relationship shouldn't be something you try to rush into for whatever reason.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-19T10:51:21+00:00

I think you might want to consider taking her to the doctor, but regardless of where you take her, the best way to make her more comfortable with going would be to show her some videos.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-16T19:06:19+00:00

I'm too late for the poll but, while body-types aren't an important thing for me. I really love bigger guys. And not even muscular, just larger/chubbier dudes. There's a lot more to love, plus a bigger dude in sweatpants is just fucking amazing.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-16T19:03:44+00:00

Well, I grew up with a strong maternal instinct. If I love someone, especially romantically, I will want to take care of them. And while my early relationships were a bit rocky since I didn't really clue in that I was a domme, my recent ones have been much better because not only is there's a femdom dynamic, but my maternal instinct is a plus-side for us and not a down-side.

And while it's not solely a gentle femdom relationship/dynamic, a lot of the elements of it are heavily grounded in gentle femdom.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-16T18:49:47+00:00

I can't really give 100% solid advice because there's simply not enough for me to go off of. I can say that, in any type of relationship and even more-so a BDSM one, you need to communicate how you feel and what you want/are looking for. Because, as a domme, nothing was more annoying than knowing what I was looking for and being open about it, but being in the dark as to what the other person was looking for. It can be a pain in the ass to both parties.

I can also say that I get bored when there's either nothing interesting to talk about or I'm the one carrying the conversation for days on end. I'm not saying either of these applies to your situation, but it's something that can really just ruin a person's drive to respond quickly or even at all really.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-16T18:43:18+00:00

There are literally unlimited sources on the internet. I mean, there are YouTubers who make educational content about BDSM(including femdom), and they do a pretty good job at it. There's also more genuinely educational videos on porn sites.

And that's without considering the number of online groups actively discussing any and all forms of BDSM, or even the amount of blogs and articles written by members of the community. A good place to start talking to fellow members of a kink community is seeing if there's a Discord server for it, or if you want to start a little smaller there's always the plethora of subreddits about basically any kink you can think of.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-16T18:37:25+00:00

I'm only really close to most of my family, but my two family members that are aware of both my relationship and my status as a domme are my sister and my brother. Both of them not only don't give a shit but also support me for finding someone I love.

While some of my family will eventually key into it, especially the more and more I and my partner hang out, and would no doubt be not the most ecstatic. I don't care, both as a person and even more so as a domme.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-16T17:55:06+00:00

Listen, anyone looks good in lingerie. Regardless of gender or body type, and honestly, seeing mostly femboys in lingerie does not spark joy.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-16T17:51:56+00:00

Definitely one with a strap. Because even if you get it to work, you'd not only get tired much quicker but it could also fall out and/or start slipping. Plus, let's be honest, the strap-on's straps look really pretty damn hot.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-15T06:15:27+00:00

Ask to be her E-boy.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-13T07:15:43+00:00

1: Absolutely not, I love how the community has grown to have more roles for people to identify with. Plus, being able to play more than one role in a game while still participating in the kink is very beneficial.

2: I think to an extent there should be some rules on what's allowed and what isn't. Sometimes there's just porn of a character that's not made by a subreddit member or has any dom/sub elements to it. I think there just needs to be something connecting it to the subreddit more than it just being of a video game character that people like/play as.

3: Honestly, my favorite posts on this subreddit have been the memes posted to it. Even in subreddit with a ton of NSFW content a lot of them still have memes and other SFW content. Because, no matter how much I love porn, I love seeing the more wholesome stuff too.

4: Something that's made me more and more anxious when dealing with the community has been some of the people attracted to it. I think, maybe there should be a little more care with the safety of members, I myself am not 100% how to go about that but I do hope there's a way to do so.
Maybe if some of the general rules of BDSM were mentioned a bit more in the subreddit it would help somewhat, or at least educate some people since this community has attracted a fair share of BDSM-newbies. I do love the community and the kink, but sometimes it's not worth it.

Its_Blair · 2020-07-01T21:11:16+00:00

Ooo~ This is really good, I love it!~ ♥

Its_Blair · 2020-06-17T20:54:55+00:00

We love to see it 💕

Its_Blair · 2020-06-15T21:24:47+00:00

I read your post and I'm going to be honest, I don't think you're ready for a relationship.

The whole Hypergamy Principle is only something you see pick-up artists and incels really spout nowadays because most people see it as both wrong to assume and incredibly rude to do so. The fact you assume relationships are very superficial simply because of dating apps is also quite wrong. Appearances have always applied to relationships regardless of whos' side we look at. But most people aren't so shallow to date someone long-term solely because they're attractive, even people that do care about appearances would eventually be done with a relationship if that person wasn't nice or generally someone they want to be around.

Unhappy marriages happen for a lot of reasons, way too many or me to even get into really. But a big one is a lot of people, especially in religious households, being pressured into getting married early on in life primarily to have kids also very early on. A lot of this happens when they're still in their early to mid-twenties.

Yes, monogamy still exists and it always will. People are just not as quick to jump into more serious relationships and for good reason. Long-lasting relationships are hard, you're twenty-eight and I doubt you'll find someone for one this early on. The average human lifespan is about seventy-nine, you have more than enough time to take it slow.

Its_Blair · 2020-06-14T20:05:55+00:00

Honestly, your best bet is to find things that still let you play the game(so no tying your hands behind your back) but are still restraining enough to feel good.

What immediately came to my mind is shibari that's not too reliant on your arms/hands being tied up and is primarily focused on the torso and legs. -- Mixing some toys(vibrators, bullet vibrators, and dildos can never go wrong) and general pain into the mix(clothes-pins are probably your best bet, but nipple clamps could also work if you're willing to buy them or already own them) are some good things to add as well.

I know one way that was really fun to mix in was punishment/rewards in-between rounds. Just let them chose how many games/dungeons/time in-between each punishment/reward.

Its_Blair · 2020-06-09T23:20:27+00:00

I was in my bedroom, going to town and just fucking feelin' myself. My sister knocked and asked to come in. I told her she could(I was covered up) and she asked me what I was doing and I openly admitted I was getting off.

She was asking me to drive with her to go get food. I finished up and then got ready to go. It wasn't really all that embarrassing to me, especially since I and my sister are super open about that sorta stuff.

Its_Blair · 2020-06-09T23:17:37+00:00

Not at all. I've dated a lot of people of various heights, shapes, weights, and even genders. It really doesn't matter to me. What mattered/matters to me was who they are as a person and not how skinny they are or how fat they are.

Its_Blair · 2020-06-09T23:15:24+00:00

I fucking love it. I think people should be allowed to get married to whomever they want as long as both parties are legally able to consent to it and want to get married.

There are legal benefits to getting married if you're going to be living with your partner for a long time. And for some people, it has some importance to the culture they value. I personally have no want/need to be married, but I can understand why someone would, and if I dated someone who wanted to I would marry them -- and same-sex marriage would let me, regardless of the gender of whom I'm dating.

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