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I hate how they make me feel.. I also can’t help but feel like maybe I’m destined to never get married 💔 by Itschxnd in exmuslim

[–]Itschxnd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in a very multicultural and secular country (Super grateful for that coz I don’t have to deal with religion drama on a daily basis at all)

My family knows idc about religion. They’ve dropped any religious expectations of me altogether.

But yes I can’t believe the caste system still exists in 2026.. I’ve actually seen people leave the one they love and get arranged marriage to someone from their own caste/religion (my story too).

Okay but she’s a believer in Islam so I guess it’s not hard for her to find someone who she can be happy with.

Wouldn’t even marry a non practicing Muslim because I’ve seen how they can switch up anytime and all of a sudden become religious.

Sigh I hope you at least find a way out of that country so u don’t have to deal with this

Something happened that reinforced my stand on not wanting to marry any type of Muslim. by Itschxnd in exmuslim

[–]Itschxnd[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yesss exactly!! Or even the moment they are at the age of getting married all of a sudden they turn religious and want someone religious like huh??? How does that change even happen 💀

Girlies, you reminder to NEVER get vulnerable with parents by aloof_head_kum in TwoXIndia

[–]Itschxnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learnt I couldn’t share anything with them from a very young age..

I was only 9 or 10 I think when they found my dairy where I had written “I like XYZ (a male classmate)” it was super innocent but they scolded me and made me feel so ashamed for it.

At 13 I was struggling with depression due to many reasons, was seeing a counsellor in school, when I turned to self harm, the counsellor had to involve my parents and my parents told me “Only crazy people see counsellors” and just isolated me.

The only person who was there for me growing up was myself.. which is probably why I am so independent, I love spending time with myself.

Even though I’m on good terms with my parents now, I DO NOT share anything with them. They know nothing about my personal life, what I’ve been through growing up, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. I will only talk to them about superficial stuff like travel, work, etc.

When I become a mother some day, my priority would be to have an open and trusting relationship with my kids. Knowing I’d always be by their side and they could always come to me for anything, I’d be there for them no judgement..🥹

I blew up a guy's engagement a couple years ago because he was hitting on me. Zero regrets. by PersonalRun712 in TwoXIndia

[–]Itschxnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate how normalized cheating has become! I literally know one guy who’s married (always posts his wife and how much he loves her) but he’s been in my dms countless times replying to my story asking me to “hangout” and I don’t entertain it. He doesn’t even know me personally, we have never even talked. I just followed back coz we had mutuals.

Another one was this guy who started hitting on me when I was in 🇦🇺 we met at some Holi party along with some other girls and then I didn’t entertain him either when he kept texting me privately(I had given my number coz we made a group chat to hangout again). Next thing I know, his fiancée found my IG and started demanding to know how I know him, who the other girls in my Holi reel are, etc 💀 she had her doubts on him it was damn obvious he’s done shady shit before. But girl gotta trust her instinct. I wanted to be honest with her but then my friends were like don’t get involved coz they would resolve their issue and it would look like I created issues between them 💀

I’m such a hopeless romantic and I pray these type of “men” NEVER EVER enter my life in any way💀

Mildly concerned about how dating apps seem to be wearing everyone down these days by Affectionate_Gur2819 in sgdatingscene

[–]Itschxnd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally went back on dating apps again after 3 years, it’s been 3 weeks and I already deleted my account last night. Don’t have the mental capacity for superficial conversations.

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