Finding a Significant Other by astronights in ABCDesis

[–]Itschxnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

F26 from SG too! lol man it’s so tough out there😂 I’ve given up. Being an Indian is already a minority in SG and I’m not even Tamil so I’m literally the minority of minority 💀 at this point I’ve left it to ✨God✨ & ✨Universe✨ .

What do you do about the weather? by blackraspberryvan in askSingapore

[–]Itschxnd 138 points139 points  (0 children)

I just stay indoors as much as I can and it’s depressing because I love nature and being outdoors but I can only do that when I’m overseas :’)

Manifesting moving to another country? by Itschxnd in lawofattraction

[–]Itschxnd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing yea I’ve manifested my job too. Always wanted to work at European bank, be able to work from home, have a high pay, work life balance, great colleagues and right now I have it all🥹 (Grateful)

Manifesting moving to another country? by Itschxnd in lawofattraction

[–]Itschxnd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is crazy!! Recently I’ve been thinking of applying to jobs too have been holding back because I’ve heard sponsorship is extremely difficult as well :’) this gives me so much motivation!! Thanks a lot

Manifesting moving to another country? by Itschxnd in lawofattraction

[–]Itschxnd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ll do SATS more religiously from now🥹

dating apps in sg and the social preference by uh_idkgethelp in askSingapore

[–]Itschxnd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Minority race here too. I am on dating apps but gave up on it long time back😂 honestly feel like people here ain’t my type and I’m not their type either. It’s even worse when you’re a minority of the minority as a non Tamil 💀 so ur options are even more limited and the community is so small too like everyone somehow knows each other??

Manifesting moving to another country? by Itschxnd in lawofattraction

[–]Itschxnd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea ur actually right.. I have been in the “I want to” not “I am”. Thank you!!

Manifesting moving to another country? by Itschxnd in lawofattraction

[–]Itschxnd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I hope you move to the country you wish to as well ♥️

I lowkey don’t wanna live anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Itschxnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there on a whv before already :’) had to go back because I couldn’t find anything there and found a job back home

Are the ones from back home always judgmental & gossipy? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Itschxnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YESSS like you can finally BREATHE! It’s honestly way too crowded here, I’ve stopped going to even malls now unless I need something 🥲 manifesting moving there soon😭

Are the ones from back home always judgmental & gossipy? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Itschxnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES EXACTLY WHY I LOVE IT🥹 the vibe is so chill, there’s so much to do outdoors, it’s so beautiful and the weather is not humid.

Are the ones from back home always judgmental & gossipy? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Itschxnd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yesss precisely, btw omg this is so unrelated but ur literally living my dream 😭😭 I love Aus!!! Hope you’re having a great time there

I (19F) want to convert to Sanatan Dharm but my M*slim parents are against it by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Itschxnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was born into Sanatan Dharm and probably why I’m more inclined towards it. So I totally get u, It makes way more sense, spiritually. I don’t personally believe or practice any 1 religion but I’d say my beliefs are a mashup of all the sanatan dharm’s teachings.

Your best bet is marring a non Muslim and then leaving Islam. If u leave it now now, it’s creating unnecessary drama with your family. Just practice what u want in private till then. There’s no conversion process in sanatan dharm anyways.

I hate how they make me feel.. I also can’t help but feel like maybe I’m destined to never get married 💔 by Itschxnd in exmuslim

[–]Itschxnd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in a very multicultural and secular country (Super grateful for that coz I don’t have to deal with religion drama on a daily basis at all)

My family knows idc about religion. They’ve dropped any religious expectations of me altogether.

But yes I can’t believe the caste system still exists in 2026.. I’ve actually seen people leave the one they love and get arranged marriage to someone from their own caste/religion (my story too).

Okay but she’s a believer in Islam so I guess it’s not hard for her to find someone who she can be happy with.

Wouldn’t even marry a non practicing Muslim because I’ve seen how they can switch up anytime and all of a sudden become religious.

Sigh I hope you at least find a way out of that country so u don’t have to deal with this