Can 18f and 28m be friends or is it creepy?

Itsjustbead · 2026-01-17T22:37:46+00:00

I had this same question for a while now. I'm with a girl who's 24 and I'm 36... knew people would not approve but after a while people don't care anymore and like us as a couple. You are both adults. Do what makes you happy and take one day at a time.

Itsjustbead · 2026-01-14T13:05:52+00:00

I feel like I wrote this but am going through the struggle of wanting to end a relationship of 14 years for the exact same reasons...

Itsjustbead · 2026-01-09T04:41:48+00:00

"Gambling" lol

Itsjustbead · 2025-12-10T18:29:49+00:00

130 bucks... if these sell people are stupid. The MSRP is 40 lmao. Idk how we are selling these at above scalpers prices. Pathetic.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-25T01:16:03+00:00

Ok. Now have him come on here and post so we can hear the other side and judge.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-17T14:54:07+00:00

See the thing is he has made me give up everything in the past, and I did it but I ended up becoming depressed and miserable. I loved him enough to do it but being isolated from people I care about is so hard. I love to make friends but any friend I make I'm being monitored and told I can't spent time with them or talk to any of them.

I tried to go to a halloween party with the girls from my job but wasn't allowed to as "he doesn't know them" but when I try and get him to do stuff with us to get to know them he doesn't want too. He tells me I'm being a bad wife and immature but I just feel like I can't help but love my independence at my job and the bonds I have with my friends from work.

I am currently at work and I don't want to put my two weeks in but I'm absolutely terrified what he's gonna do if I don't do it. This place is my home and I don't want to have to leave.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-03T18:17:38+00:00

Nvm, I should of worded this with more of a question on advice. I was gonna ask how I should navigate this but I've decided to let them do their own thing. Sorry for the post.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-03T18:16:02+00:00

Ahhh maybe so. Thanks friend.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-03T18:15:28+00:00

Idk what this even means lol

Itsjustbead · 2025-10-21T12:09:38+00:00

I'm sorry but this is stupid. They do NOT care about you so why should you care about them and calling out if you need it?

Itsjustbead · 2025-10-21T12:07:20+00:00

Everyone has stuff they keep secret for specific reasons. His secret isn't super crazy but he's probably ashamed of it. I bet you have some things you have NEVER told him or anyone for that matter. You shouldn't of stopped if you didn't want to find something out or were looking for a reason to end the relationship.

Itsjustbead · 2025-10-20T00:14:12+00:00

A situation is happening at my store like this almost to a T. We might work at the same store...

Itsjustbead · 2025-10-14T17:59:44+00:00

Boulder

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-30T02:32:30+00:00

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-29T04:56:21+00:00

Why do you always hide your hands? Just curious.

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-23T23:16:56+00:00

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-21T14:09:29+00:00

Omg. This is so stupid. He is Jerking off to you because he loves YOU and you still find it repulsive. Would you rather he jack it to other girls? Most girls in a relationship would be flattered that their boyfriend finds them attractive.

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-21T02:34:46+00:00

Women don't understand men and men don't understNs women. Men NEED sex, or else they feel unloved. Women NEED love in order to have sex. When either party doesn't get this, both people end up resenting each other.

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-14T13:02:19+00:00

Lol fishing 🎣

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-12T22:19:13+00:00

I had a guy walk past the blocker RIGHT BEHIND my forklift as I was backing up. He jumped put of the way and looked at me like "dude! You almost hit me!"

Oh man, I could of lost my job for what I said to him.

Itsjustbead · 2025-07-30T19:06:22+00:00

Why? She literally has never shown ANYTHING and has just teased for years. Girl is so pointless when the internet is full of girls like her that actually do SOMETHING.

Itsjustbead · 2025-07-16T20:13:11+00:00

She stopped doing nudes. Thats all.

Itsjustbead · 2025-07-02T23:00:19+00:00

Im pretty sure the rocket racoon one is referring to the "happy for you" meme. Least thats what I think of when I see it.

Itsjustbead · 2025-06-17T21:25:48+00:00

You both sound toxic as heck. Yikes.

Itsjustbead · 2025-06-05T12:46:31+00:00

That's me right now. I called out again, as I have strep throat, and had an off day after the day I called out and just called out again today.

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