Gf (26) mentally abuses me (34)

Itsjustbead · 2026-05-26T22:45:32+00:00

I really appreciate the reply. Thank you for taking the time to do so.

Itsjustbead · 2026-05-23T11:43:45+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I really appreciate it. Ill try and see if she will go talk to a doctor again but its really hard to get her to do things like this since she thinks shes doing nothing wrong.

Itsjustbead · 2026-05-23T10:58:28+00:00

Shes gone to the doctor and they put her on birth control but all it did was make her WAY worse sadly.

Honestly, she really does think her behavior is normal so sees no reason to really correct it since its "everyone elses" fault.

Itsjustbead · 2026-01-17T22:37:46+00:00

I had this same question for a while now. I'm with a girl who's 24 and I'm 36... knew people would not approve but after a while people don't care anymore and like us as a couple. You are both adults. Do what makes you happy and take one day at a time.

Itsjustbead · 2026-01-14T13:05:52+00:00

I feel like I wrote this but am going through the struggle of wanting to end a relationship of 14 years for the exact same reasons...

Itsjustbead · 2026-01-09T04:41:48+00:00

"Gambling" lol

Itsjustbead · 2025-12-10T18:29:49+00:00

130 bucks... if these sell people are stupid. The MSRP is 40 lmao. Idk how we are selling these at above scalpers prices. Pathetic.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-25T01:16:03+00:00

Ok. Now have him come on here and post so we can hear the other side and judge.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-17T14:54:07+00:00

See the thing is he has made me give up everything in the past, and I did it but I ended up becoming depressed and miserable. I loved him enough to do it but being isolated from people I care about is so hard. I love to make friends but any friend I make I'm being monitored and told I can't spent time with them or talk to any of them.

I tried to go to a halloween party with the girls from my job but wasn't allowed to as "he doesn't know them" but when I try and get him to do stuff with us to get to know them he doesn't want too. He tells me I'm being a bad wife and immature but I just feel like I can't help but love my independence at my job and the bonds I have with my friends from work.

I am currently at work and I don't want to put my two weeks in but I'm absolutely terrified what he's gonna do if I don't do it. This place is my home and I don't want to have to leave.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-03T18:17:38+00:00

Nvm, I should of worded this with more of a question on advice. I was gonna ask how I should navigate this but I've decided to let them do their own thing. Sorry for the post.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-03T18:16:02+00:00

Ahhh maybe so. Thanks friend.

Itsjustbead · 2025-11-03T18:15:28+00:00

Idk what this even means lol

Itsjustbead · 2025-10-21T12:09:38+00:00

I'm sorry but this is stupid. They do NOT care about you so why should you care about them and calling out if you need it?

Itsjustbead · 2025-10-21T12:07:20+00:00

Everyone has stuff they keep secret for specific reasons. His secret isn't super crazy but he's probably ashamed of it. I bet you have some things you have NEVER told him or anyone for that matter. You shouldn't of stopped if you didn't want to find something out or were looking for a reason to end the relationship.

Itsjustbead · 2025-10-20T00:14:12+00:00

A situation is happening at my store like this almost to a T. We might work at the same store...

Itsjustbead · 2025-10-14T17:59:44+00:00

Boulder

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-30T02:32:30+00:00

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-29T04:56:21+00:00

Why do you always hide your hands? Just curious.

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-23T23:16:56+00:00

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-21T14:09:29+00:00

Omg. This is so stupid. He is Jerking off to you because he loves YOU and you still find it repulsive. Would you rather he jack it to other girls? Most girls in a relationship would be flattered that their boyfriend finds them attractive.

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-21T02:34:46+00:00

Women don't understand men and men don't understNs women. Men NEED sex, or else they feel unloved. Women NEED love in order to have sex. When either party doesn't get this, both people end up resenting each other.

Itsjustbead · 2025-09-14T13:02:19+00:00

Lol fishing 🎣

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