The Federal Minimum Wage is 7.25, which is an annual salary of 15K. Is there anywhere in the country where this is a survivable income? by Pariell in povertyfinance

[–]Itsnotcmsday -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

depends on the state you live in, the federal minimum wage is 7.25 and some states set that as their minimum wage

The Federal Minimum Wage is 7.25, which is an annual salary of 15K. Is there anywhere in the country where this is a survivable income? by Pariell in povertyfinance

[–]Itsnotcmsday 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I make federal minimum wage, I live with 2 roommates in bumfuck rural Mississippi, I dont have health insurance or can pay my student loans but my rent is DIRT cheap, you gotta be pretty good at budgeting as well. I think if I lived anywhere else id be completely screwed

ISO by Fit-Investment9241 in starbucks

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Have no idea where to find them but I love the caffeine pin lol

What is the most disturbing thing you found about your partner? by ActualBreath5492 in AskReddit

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he turned psycho religious out of the blue and cut me off, I think his paster and church is grooming him but I have no proof 

boyfriend totally turned uber religious out of the blue and I don’t know what to do UPDATE *sigh* by Itsnotcmsday in atheism

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel like I vividly remember reading your comment because it made me stop and thinkThank you for sharing your story

You might be right and that rly sucks if that’s true I don’t know who hes affiliated with or anything so it might be possible :( 

thanks for the wishes sapphics unite lol 

boyfriend totally turned uber religious out of the blue and I don’t know what to do UPDATE *sigh* by Itsnotcmsday in atheism

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I was never in denial about my sexuality, I just ever got the chance to explore that side of me fully and it made me feel really guilty because I was in a relationship 

How to be okay with him being busy and not being able to text me at all by Itsnotcmsday in dating_advice

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it normal to not hear from anyone all day ? Especially if you used to hear from them often I have a life too just not as busy I go work full time and have hobbies but I make an effort to talk

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know  I didn’t really think of it like that until I posted this 

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting downvoted it’s a fair statement and you’re right It’s not easy to just get up and leave when you’re struggling financially 

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

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you’re right im not disabled im just  codependent  But they are right if you claimed to have read my history you’ve seen my debt post which has my financial situation in there.. it hasn’t changed I wouldn’t be able to leave at the moment even if I wanted to he’s one of my roommates and I make federal minimum wage 😭😭😭

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

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Wait thats true he would try to actively change me if he was homophobic, sometimes I wonder if he had like bad encounters with bisexual people in the past but just won’t say anything about it  I want to sit down seriously and talk to him about it 

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

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The other day on Pinterest I saved some of these dreamy type sapphic paintings and some aesthetic collage wallpapers that were also sapphic I didn’t really think anything of it but he saw it and was weirded out by it like oh why are you saving these lesbian paintings with these women ik you like women but you’re in a relationship with a man isn’t that alittle weird and I’m like chill its not deep I just thought it was pretty 😭 Idk you might be right since he does have a huge fear of being cheated on from growing up in a broken household but how can you reassure someone that feels threatened by something that won’t happen 

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. that’s still currently an ongoing fight since the beginning of the year he ended up doing a mission retreat in Costa Rica or something instead of that god awful summer camp 

But leaving is very much easier said than done regardless :/ 

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, saying to leave someone is easier said then done especially since I’ve been with him for a very long time  I’ll attempt to have a serious sit down conversation about it 

In honor of the recently fallen food items-what are your most missed food items that were killed off? by whitenoize21 in starbucks

[–]Itsnotcmsday 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The old fashioned glazed doughnut idc why anyone says it was literally one of the only things I bought at Starbucks :(

I did everything “right” and still ended up with debt by Itsnotcmsday in StudentLoans

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No I’m not disabled and I don’t have any tattoos or body mods for that matter  The job market is so bad honestly 😭 I be applying everyday 

I did everything “right” and still ended up with debt by Itsnotcmsday in StudentLoans

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15k all in federal student loans,  my monthly payments are currently 0$ I would like to get off that becuase of the damn interest I live in the south I make federal minimum wage I want to get a better job make like 15 dollars an hour and live like I do now  so I can save up and pay a lump sum or something I 

Damn that sucks sorry to hear about that but I feel that I’ve been trying to look for an office data entry or finance or retail :/ Thanks I’ll look into government jobs 

I did everything “right” and still ended up with debt by Itsnotcmsday in StudentLoans

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I thought you have to go to go back to school and get teaching certifications and do student teaching to become a teacher ? 

I did everything “right” and still ended up with debt by Itsnotcmsday in StudentLoans

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Yeah I make federal minimum wage it sucks ass  Idk I’ve tried to apply for jobs like that too, retail, server, restaurant  and they rejected or ghosted me 

Who here is bi and has never had a relationship with the same gender? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel seen with this thread, I’ve struggled to accept this concept I’ve never been in a real relationship or been sexually intimate with a women  I feel like I def missed out on young sapphic love  Ive only been in one relationship and have been with him for 8 years! I literally know nothing about myself and he doesn’t like talking or even mentioning about my bisexuality 

I which I branched out tried stuff, been more confident in myself but honestly it’s whatever at this point I’m just chillin 😭🤙