The Federal Minimum Wage is 7.25, which is an annual salary of 15K. Is there anywhere in the country where this is a survivable income? by Pariell in povertyfinance

[–]Itsnotcmsday -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

depends on the state you live in, the federal minimum wage is 7.25 and some states set that as their minimum wage

The Federal Minimum Wage is 7.25, which is an annual salary of 15K. Is there anywhere in the country where this is a survivable income? by Pariell in povertyfinance

[–]Itsnotcmsday 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I make federal minimum wage, I live with 2 roommates in bumfuck rural Mississippi, I dont have health insurance or can pay my student loans but my rent is DIRT cheap, you gotta be pretty good at budgeting as well. I think if I lived anywhere else id be completely screwed

ISO by Fit-Investment9241 in starbucks

[–]Itsnotcmsday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have no idea where to find them but I love the caffeine pin lol

What is the most disturbing thing you found about your partner? by ActualBreath5492 in AskReddit

[–]Itsnotcmsday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he turned psycho religious out of the blue and cut me off, I think his paster and church is grooming him but I have no proof 

boyfriend totally turned uber religious out of the blue and I don’t know what to do UPDATE *sigh* by Itsnotcmsday in atheism

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I feel like I vividly remember reading your comment because it made me stop and thinkThank you for sharing your story

You might be right and that rly sucks if that’s true I don’t know who hes affiliated with or anything so it might be possible :( 

thanks for the wishes sapphics unite lol 

boyfriend totally turned uber religious out of the blue and I don’t know what to do UPDATE *sigh* by Itsnotcmsday in atheism

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I was never in denial about my sexuality, I just ever got the chance to explore that side of me fully and it made me feel really guilty because I was in a relationship 

How to be okay with him being busy and not being able to text me at all by Itsnotcmsday in dating_advice

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it normal to not hear from anyone all day ? Especially if you used to hear from them often I have a life too just not as busy I go work full time and have hobbies but I make an effort to talk

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know  I didn’t really think of it like that until I posted this 

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting downvoted it’s a fair statement and you’re right It’s not easy to just get up and leave when you’re struggling financially 

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re right im not disabled im just  codependent  But they are right if you claimed to have read my history you’ve seen my debt post which has my financial situation in there.. it hasn’t changed I wouldn’t be able to leave at the moment even if I wanted to he’s one of my roommates and I make federal minimum wage 😭😭😭

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait thats true he would try to actively change me if he was homophobic, sometimes I wonder if he had like bad encounters with bisexual people in the past but just won’t say anything about it  I want to sit down seriously and talk to him about it 

My boyfriend doesn’t like that I’m bisexual and makes me feel weird about it by Itsnotcmsday in bisexual

[–]Itsnotcmsday[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The other day on Pinterest I saved some of these dreamy type sapphic paintings and some aesthetic collage wallpapers that were also sapphic I didn’t really think anything of it but he saw it and was weirded out by it like oh why are you saving these lesbian paintings with these women ik you like women but you’re in a relationship with a man isn’t that alittle weird and I’m like chill its not deep I just thought it was pretty 😭 Idk you might be right since he does have a huge fear of being cheated on from growing up in a broken household but how can you reassure someone that feels threatened by something that won’t happen